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SargeMaximus: I Feel It Coming, Part II [DMSI 3.1 A Invalid Tester]
10-11-2017, 08:44 PM
Post: #101
RE: SargeMaximus: I Feel It Coming, Part II [DMSI 3.1 A Invalid Tester]
Super motivated lately. Reading a lot of Tony Robbins. Committed to following through with the books this time.

Last time I was reading Tony Robbins was just before I got into sales and exploded success-wise. As per my usual pattern: I then stopped.

I figure that's one of the reasons why my results have stopped.

We'll see.

ION went to the gym. Didn't notice anything from girls. Was too focused on having a good workout. But I hurt my back as I was doing one of the exercises. Sad

It's crazy how whenever I get super motivated I do something to hurt myself. I don't think it's self sabotage, I just think the "motivated" state is not a productive state for me. It may get my feet moving but it's not very cautious.

Had the same thing in sales years ago. I was SO motivated to do good in sales but my results suffered. It's weird. Don't know why that is.
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10-11-2017, 10:05 PM
Post: #102
RE: SargeMaximus: I Feel It Coming, Part II [DMSI 3.1 A Invalid Tester]
Me too; I get excited, and then within two weeks I'll sick or within the month I'll have minor tear somewhere that'll last me several months to recover from. Right now its my shoulder. Even if it feels like a minor thing, it seems to require full rest to recover from. Discouraging.

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10-12-2017, 08:42 AM (This post was last modified: 10-12-2017 08:43 AM by SargeMaximus.)
Post: #103
RE: SargeMaximus: I Feel It Coming, Part II [DMSI 3.1 A Invalid Tester]
(10-11-2017 10:05 PM)LionKing Wrote:  Me too; I get excited, and then within two weeks I'll sick or within the month I'll have minor tear somewhere that'll last me several months to recover from. Right now its my shoulder. Even if it feels like a minor thing, it seems to require full rest to recover from. Discouraging.

Ouch. That sucks man. Sad

Yeah, it's definitely discouraging. It makes me think getting motivated is the wrong way to go about change.

I think it's better to just do what's necessary without all the "YEAH! LET'S DO THIS! RAWR!" element. Don't know how else to describe it.



So I went to the doctor and he says it doesn't matter if it's a muscle strain or a disc problem, the treatment is the same: rest till it feels better.

So I got a note and will be taking time off work.

Back still hurts this morning, especially when walking.
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10-13-2017, 08:56 PM
Post: #104
RE: SargeMaximus: I Feel It Coming, Part II [DMSI 3.1 A Invalid Tester]
Some thoughts and DMSI Notables ahead:

- Did sales. Nothing, despite being "on point". As I've mentioned before, "on point" is usually a bad state for me. I think after a year of trying to do things the "right" way I can say that it doesn't work for me, and probably never will.

It doesn't mean I'm throwing the baby out with the bathwater, but I AM going to focus more on what works from now on, and just f*cking do that. Books, opinions, advice, are all just guesses. Unless it produces results, it's worthless.

- To that end, PLEASE, for the love of humanity, Shannon, PLEASE make DMSI help the user be aware of and sensitive to what women ACTUALLY respond to, not what PUA's, gurus, new-agers, "naturals", or anyone else who's "good" with women says. I've tried dozens of "ways" including some advocated by some on this very forum (not going to mention names!), including some tonight/today, that simply do not work for me or lead to nothing substantial.

- I'll get to that in a second, first lets have a notable that I think is important to mention:

So I was at a gas station and the girl working the register I've seen her before. Countless times.

Anyhow, as I'm leaving she says "How are you?" (never asked me this, not to mention it's odd since I'm leaving that she asks me this. Clearly DMSI sniping her and this was an approach :o )

So I stop and I'm like "not bad, how are you?"

She says "I'm good."

I'm like "Awesome! Well... have a great weekend!" and I wave, she smiles and says "you too!" and waves back.

I leave.

Then I get in my car and I'm looking on my phone for some reason, then this hot girl walks past my car into the gas station and I'm like "should I go after her to talk to her?" then I'm like "nah, that would be ME approaching HER. i.e. Me seducing HER." So that was odd.

If I'm honest, I would have liked to f*ck her, but because she doesn't approach me I can't? How f*cked up is that?

That's a reason to make DMSI a seducer sub, imo. Why should we play the VICTIM to circumstance in this regard? I honestly don't get that. But I digress.

- Ok, so now another moment. I was at Denny's with my cousin. We were talking about sales (man alive, SO good to talk about things I'm actually passionate about with someone who is passionate about it too!!). Our waitress was an arabic woman. 7/10. Gread ass, small tits (I think). She seemed indifferent to me for a while till I made more effort to thank her and smile (!).

Eventually, I asked her what was on her hand (she had designs on her hand() she said it's Henna. I'm like "what's that?" she tells me what it is. Then she's like "Just google 'Henna'. Here..." then writes the name of it down on my receipt lol.

So I learned some things about her, was curious, showed interest in her WORLD not just her body and... nothing. She waved at me as we left. Laaaaammmmmmeeeee.

I was expecting her to be all like "ooh, who is this guy who likes me for myself not just my body" but nah. Just another bland interaction.

So in that "N=1" instance, 'it' didn't work.

I think making a connection is good, but honestly, I know SO much about my hairdresser and her inner world and life now that I could be her psychologist. She ain't f*cking me, however, so that IS NOT IT!!

Something else makes women wanna F*CK a guy, and it ain't being interested in THEM, not imo.

So, there it is. I said it. Cue the flaming.

Time for bed.
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10-14-2017, 11:21 AM
Post: #105
RE: SargeMaximus: I Feel It Coming, Part II [DMSI 3.1 A Invalid Tester]
Doing D2D this morning.

As I'm walking, I see a guy in the distance walking towards me on the opposite side of the street.

He then crosses the street and is coming straight towards me.

At first I get nervous and think "what is this, a shakedown?" but as we get closer he nods and says hi.

I timidly say "hi" in return.

As I continue walking I'm thinking to myself that he looked familiar.

I then think it may have been the doctor I had when I went in for my back. :o

I don't know what he'd be doing in that part of town, tho, because it's far away from the hospital I went to.

I find it odd that it is, actually him.

BUT, why did he cross the street to say hi to me then?

Or maybe he just crossed the street coincidentally and said hi just because.

I dunno. It kinda weirded me out and made me think I gotta be ready for those kinds of things.

Because if it WAS that doctor, I could have been more friendly and said "yeah I bought that book you recommended and the back is doing a lot better thanks for all your help. I didn't know you lived all the way over here, etc"

Just be more aware of people and more friendly towards them in general.
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10-14-2017, 09:40 PM
Post: #106
RE: SargeMaximus: I Feel It Coming, Part II [DMSI 3.1 A Invalid Tester]
Got some good things to report :o

So I've been reading "Awaken the Giant Within" by Tony Robbins. Great book so far. Not a magic pill but I'm noticing some things.

First, just now, I was about to go to bed when I realized my MP3 player was still in the car. I'm in my pajamas and am tired, worn out, stressed, etc. I was like "F*ck it! I'll just not listen tonight. It's not doing anything anyways, etc etc" Then I was like "at least I'll read some of Tony's book, then go to sleep."

Well that seemed to trigger me to enforce standards on myself because I stopped, got out of bed, went to the car, grabbed the MP3 player, then came back.

Secondly, been thinking a lot about my limiting beliefs. I keep trying to debunk them and keep coming up with mountains of evidence to support them. But now, I'm looking at each individual piece of evidence under a microscope to see if it's really valid or just cherry-picked or over-generalized to fit my agenda.

I like this new way of thinking. Gotta keep the momentum.
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10-15-2017, 09:56 PM
Post: #107
RE: SargeMaximus: I Feel It Coming, Part II [DMSI 3.1 A Invalid Tester]
Suggestion for DMSI 3.2:

"There are certain laws, like gravity, that we have to take into consideration in everything we do. The law of gravity is not a personal opinion. It does not function depending on whether or not you believe in it. Gravity works all the time, everywhere, for everyone, under all conditions, without exception. The laws of human nature are the same. We do not try to change the unchangeable. We may attempt to modify them in ourselves and others or direct them into positive channels, but intelligent people accept these inevitable and unavoidable characteristics and behaviours and take them into consideration in everything they say and do." - "Something for Nothing" by Brian Tracy.

Keep it in mind.
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10-16-2017, 04:00 AM
Post: #108
RE: SargeMaximus: I Feel It Coming, Part II [DMSI 3.1 A Invalid Tester]
(10-14-2017 09:40 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote:  Got some good things to report :o

So I've been reading "Awaken the Giant Within" by Tony Robbins. Great book so far. Not a magic pill but I'm noticing some things.

First, just now, I was about to go to bed when I realized my MP3 player was still in the car. I'm in my pajamas and am tired, worn out, stressed, etc. I was like "F*ck it! I'll just not listen tonight. It's not doing anything anyways, etc etc" Then I was like "at least I'll read some of Tony's book, then go to sleep."

Well that seemed to trigger me to enforce standards on myself because I stopped, got out of bed, went to the car, grabbed the MP3 player, then came back.

Secondly, been thinking a lot about my limiting beliefs. I keep trying to debunk them and keep coming up with mountains of evidence to support them. But now, I'm looking at each individual piece of evidence under a microscope to see if it's really valid or just cherry-picked or over-generalized to fit my agenda.

I like this new way of thinking. Gotta keep the momentum.


So you not listening to the flac files?
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10-16-2017, 08:39 PM
Post: #109
RE: SargeMaximus: I Feel It Coming, Part II [DMSI 3.1 A Invalid Tester]
I have a theory as to how Shannon's subs work, but I won't share it out of respect to him.

However, if they work as I think they do, I suggest amplifying the emotional impact of lessons in order to shorten the time needed to learn from them.

Additionally, I really do suggest Shannon read "Something for Nothing" by Brian Tracy. It seems very much in line with his ideals. Hopefully it will provide some insights and clues into how to improve dmsi and create alpha male 7.
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10-16-2017, 10:12 PM (This post was last modified: 10-17-2017 09:29 AM by SargeMaximus.)
Post: #110
RE: SargeMaximus: I Feel It Coming, Part II [DMSI 3.1 A Invalid Tester]
I'm starting to remember some of the insights I had while on AM 6. Must be the H/C.

It's crazy how a few realizations can change the course of your life. I can tell that if I keep on the path I'm going, things will improve. A lot of my faith in people, life, and the "grand scheme" has been restored. Part of that is definitely DMSI, but a lot of it is also the Tony Robbins and Brian Tracy books (along with many others).

"Awaken the Giant Within" is great for personal change, but I don't think I could have made such a drastic shift in my thinking as I had today without reading "Something for Nothing: The All-Consuming Desire that Turns the American Dream into a Social Nightmare" by Brian Tracy. The man tells it like it is. I recommend it for sure. I'm about 1/4 of the way through and I'm still reading. Trying to finish it ASAP.

EDIT: in fact, IMO, "Something for Nothing" should be required reading for the Alpha Male Program instead of "how to be an alpha male".
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10-17-2017, 05:07 PM
Post: #111
RE: SargeMaximus: I Feel It Coming, Part II [DMSI 3.1 A Invalid Tester]
I'm about 1/2-3/4 done that book! :O

It's good, lacking in a few practical areas thus far, but I'm hopeful.

Ultimately, the question (for me) is: How can I get everything I want without hurting anyone?

The exact "how", as I said, hasn't come into focus yet, but it's been alluded to several times.

ION, did some D2D this evening.

I love sales. It makes things so simple. The results are favourable if you're doing things "right" and they're simply not favourable if you're not. "The Market" is the great mirror of your performance.

There are varying degrees of that too.

For example, tonight, everyone (nearly every door I knocked on) opened up and was friendly, engaging, but ultimately, not interested.

It could be many things, I'm thinking I wasn't coming across as "the expert" (cause one guy asked for a card and when I tried to keep him in conversation he claimed his dog was "going berserk" when clearly the dog wasn't), however I did get some difficult questions from the 2nd last guy, which would indicate he thought I could answer them. Meaning: expert.

Anyhow, much the same process needs to be done with DMSI. I'll add my ideas to the DMSI thread.
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10-18-2017, 09:55 AM
Post: #112
RE: SargeMaximus: I Feel It Coming, Part II [DMSI 3.1 A Invalid Tester]
Internet is down. Typing this email n my phone.

Went to the library today.

Hot milf working there helped me find something. She was wearing a tank top that exposed enough cleavave and top of her big breasts.

Also, made strong EC with a woman there and immediately another woman walked past me then slowed right up as she got in front of me.

Wish I could go into more detail but typing on the phone is ridiculous.
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10-18-2017, 11:28 PM
Post: #113
RE: SargeMaximus: I Feel It Coming, Part II [DMSI 3.1 A Invalid Tester]
So internet is back.

I can't remember too well what happened at the library, I just know it was epic. Massive aura hitting ALL the women I wanted and NONE of the ones I didn't. It was glorious.

Also, in the last few days (including today) girls been hitting me up on OKC out of nowhere.

One girl today seemed quite keen but when I went for it she seemed to back off. Maybe I showed too much interest but seriously, any less interest and I'd just ignore her. :/

So still unsure WTF is going on in that area.

Got a number that went nowhere, etc. Stuff like that is normal for me. The perpetual "DMSI fires then something happens and girls do 180". Doesn't seem to matter how I play it either. The first girl I went the slow, "rapport" way. Got the number but then got ghosted. The second girl I went the "fast" way (she wasn't giving me any resistance till the very end) and that didn't work either.

Ok then.

Anyhow, doing lots of Tony Robbins stuff, really trying to get back into my A-Game.

I saw Minititan said he did REALLY well in sales while on DMSI. That's been the exact opposite of me.

Anyhjow, I'm off to bed.
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10-19-2017, 12:29 PM
Post: #114
RE: SargeMaximus: I Feel It Coming, Part II [DMSI 3.1 A Invalid Tester]
So, very interesting thing in sales this morning.

An older guy (60 he said) who used to do sales for 39 years began shooting the shit with me. Lending me much advice without being preachy or insulting.

He basically said I need to shoot higher. Not settle for being a lead-generator and go for the gold.

Throughout the convo, he alluded to the fact that people (he) trust me and sending them to another salesman is a disservice. So that was flattering.

It's also interesting how this NEVER happened in the 2 years prior. I'm DEFINITELY sending off different vibes this year = DMSI.

ION I think DMSI would benefit from "It takes 2 to tango/co-operation" programming.
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10-19-2017, 04:55 PM
Post: #115
RE: SargeMaximus: I Feel It Coming, Part II [DMSI 3.1 A Invalid Tester]
Lots of good vibes in sales today. Even a woman I called on years ago who was angry back then seemed awe-struck by me. But overall, everyone seemed pleased to see me. And I was having a lot of fun interacting with people. One woman (cute) also talked with me for a long time till I finally left.

Despite that, no sales.
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10-19-2017, 09:02 PM
Post: #116
RE: SargeMaximus: I Feel It Coming, Part II [DMSI 3.1 A Invalid Tester]
Just got back from the gym. A few things of note:

- That guy whose keys I found a while back and he was acting all "bro-ish" to me ignored me today. He was doing exercises and had a girl fawning over him. I assume it's because of the girl but who knows.

- Was waiting behind a hot hard-body babe at the water fountain. She seemed to also ignore me and seemed to take extra-long with her water bottle. I was thinking of going to another fountain, but it was farther away and wouldn't have made sense. She waved at some guys working out there then left without looking at me.

- Lots of guys seemingly encroaching in my personal space at the gym. Like purposefully. Not sure if it's all in my head but it was REALLY annoying me today.

- My brother has been getting under my skin recently. I'll say "how are you?" as you know, a greeting, and he'll say "I'm all-right" in a sort of "I'm actually NOT all right" tone. Pisses me off for some reason.

Makes me wonder what's with all the good reactions in sales. But maybe it's a key to why no apps have been set. Hmm.

I'm going to try being this way and only really acknowledging people who can fit in this paradigm and see how that works.

Normally I try to go on other people's level but we'll see how this goes.
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10-20-2017, 11:36 AM
Post: #117
RE: SargeMaximus: I Feel It Coming, Part II [DMSI 3.1 A Invalid Tester]
Strange reactions from people again. Also some good ones. I don't like being in this constant "who knows?" state. It definitely doesn't help.
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10-20-2017, 03:10 PM (This post was last modified: 10-20-2017 03:12 PM by SargeMaximus.)
Post: #118
RE: SargeMaximus: I Feel It Coming, Part II [DMSI 3.1 A Invalid Tester]
Just got back from getting my hair cut. No mones. Just DMSI goodness.

At this point I can officially say I have a "love/hate" relationship with DMSI because on the one hand, DMSI seems to be murdering my sales results (only thing I can think of. The only other possibility is that my heart just isn't in it and I'm sabotaging every call. Qhich could also be true. BUT, DMSI seems to be likely. Especially with how people are acting with me in sales these days. Definitely different) but on the other hand I have days like today where everything felt good.

Here's the scene:

I'm wearing my black moto jacket and black boots. Hair is done up.

I get in there and that big-tit arabic girl is all smiley but looks down most of the time while we interact.

She's like "I remember you... you're with [random name]"

I'm like "Uh... no..."

She goes "Oh, aren't you Richard?"

I stare blankly "no..."

she laughs hysterically "sorry, sorry, sorry"

Me: You're so bad at this... *she laughs more* I'm Sarge

Her: right, you're with [hairdresser]

Me: that's right

Her: Ok, just have a seat she'll be done in a few minutes

Me: Ok, no worries.


Well I waited quite a bit. Finally my HD comes to the front and I hear the arabic girl say to my HD "Sarge is waiting for you"

After a short time my HD comes over all smiles, leans in with her face getting close to me and she's like "Am I fired?"

I'm like" ... yes."

She laughs, we go over to the chair.

Anyhow, convo was really good I had her roaring in laughter and I wasn't doing anything, just being myself :o (YES, I HAVE tried that in sales... doesn't work) anyhow, she brings up my age at one point. We're talking about older women dying their hair and I'm like "yeah I've never seen that. was that a 'thing'?" she goes "yeah about [X number of years] ago..." then she BURSTS out laughing "omg, BEFORE YOU WERE BORN!!!!"

I'm like "Yeah 1 YEAR before!!" and she just keeps laughing and I'm thinking she can't believe she wants such a young guy inside her Wink

Then the funniest thing happens, AMOG guy who was getting his hair cut right beside me suddenly says to my HD "Did you work here 9 years ago? You cut my hair!" lol, totally interrupting, total AMOG, means I'm a total badass. I just ignore him. Then afterwards I ask HD "Do you know that guy?" she goes "no... well, apparently I cut his hair 9 years ago." and *shrugs her shoulders like "whatever" lol*

Anyhow, so that was good.

No crotch to my hands but I don't want her crotch to my hands, know what I'm saying?

Anyhow, on the way back to the front I playfully leaned into her and she didn't react badly at all.

Then we somehow got on the topic of airport security and a spray they use to look for drugs.

We're at the front desk at this point and my HD, big-tit arab girl, and sexy-legs-and-face arab girl are all there facing me smiling. Foursome for the ages :o

Anyhow, I'm like "can you get high off of that stuff?" My HD goes "what, cocaine?" and bursts out laughing. I'm like "no... the spray stuff the security uses.." anyhow, randomness ensued, I don't even know what we talked about after that. The topic of drugs was dropped immediately.

Also, get this: I already get a discount with my HD, but today she instructed sexy-legs to give me even more off because I waited. :o

So that was awesome.

Also, sexy-legs asked if I wanted the receipt. I said "no thanks" but then she handed it to me a few minutes later. Or at least she TRIED to but I just raisedf my hand, smiled, and again said "no thanks"

Good stuff.
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10-20-2017, 08:48 PM
Post: #119
RE: SargeMaximus: I Feel It Coming, Part II [DMSI 3.1 A Invalid Tester]
So just got back from the gym. Really applying myself lately thanks to Tony Robbins book (which reminds me, gotta finish that exercise!)

But one thing I noticed was I STILL avoid girls I like. :/

I had one exercise left to do but I would have had to do it (not really HAD to, but it was the spot I liked to do the exercise at) next to a girl who was working out.

Very cute too. When I was putting my weights away she and I locked eyes for a second then she looked back into the mirror in front of her.

I didn't smile. Should have. :/

Which reminds me, I'm also noticing all the faux pas I do (that I'm aware of) and am keeping them in mind for next time those kinds of situations arise.

The plus side is, when I came into the gym, I made EC and mutal-head-nodded with the guy at the desk (different guy, as in, NOT the guy that ignored me yesterday) and made a slight joke/witty comment that made the girl smile.

She's one of the girls from this gym who's still there and who I'd like to bang. She's been on my radar since 3.0.1
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10-21-2017, 04:05 PM
Post: #120
RE: SargeMaximus: I Feel It Coming, Part II [DMSI 3.1 A Invalid Tester]
Got an app in sales this evening. Easy as pie.

Back to doing what works.

Tony Robbins, I love the guy, but the whole "hard work" thing doesn't seem to work for me. I get much better results when I'm a lazy slob.

At least, that;s what the last few months has taught me (and the 2 years prior).

Law of Least Effort is a thing.

Also, people I'm setting apps with now are consistently more normal people. Not many outliers.

I used to pride myself on being able to appeal to the outliers, but I suppose as you grow and improve you naturally get closer to the majority of successful people. Least, that's my theory.
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