09-22-2013, 09:18 AM
STAGE 3 - DAY 2 - Hitting bottom but rescued by an angel
Have you ever gone out and had the worst start of your night ever and you feel like wanting to just disappear?
I had one of those nights yesterday but.. somehow a blonde, words can't describe beauty, angel saved me.
It all started when two girls, which I had approached 4-5 times the night before, came down the stairs in the bar.
They noticed me and were avoiding me and whispered something negative about me and.. it got into my head.
An anger started to mold in my body. No looseness but intensity in my mood.
I talked to few girls and talked about my anger. I let it out and began to yell and scream like a beast whenever I felt the anger had to be let out.
It was an intense & powerful energy.
Few rejections of kissing and welcoming my presence in the process.
Afterwards my thoughts were running still with the negative inception from the two girls and with.. like no one really wanted to listen to me.
I really wanted to disappear. I was feeling sooo low and really wanted to go home.
BUT NO!
My former experiences have taught me lessons and I just wouldn't let my emotions dictate my actions.
There I was. Standing by myself, knowing my friends were somewhere but not wanting to find them for comfort. Feeling fvcking low.
Suddenly this beautiful blonde creature, hair with few curls and done, in black, blue & green summer color short dress walks past me. I stand there for 3-5 seconds and I went after her in the midst of the crowd, like Moses parting the sea.
I tap her on her shoulder and she turns. Laser eye-contact extending my hand forward and introduce. Throughout the interaction we were in a bubble.
me: Hi.. I'm James. You are really cute.. I had to meet you.
her: (Looking a bit puzzled, thought a moment and then lightened up) Ohh.. Thanks you! I'm xyz.
me: Let's go for a romantic walk in the bar. <-- Golden line for moving the girl.
her: (giggling) I don't think it's a very good idea.. my boyfriend is over there
Our hands still holding, I squeezed and then she squeezed.
me: (close to her ears) Then we have to be very discreet.
her: (giggles) I don't think it's a very good idea.. my bf is there.. [something along like, I hope you'll find a sweet girl. While she flirtatiously, seductively put her hand on my chest and looks at me. Gives me a kiss on the mouth. Looks at me smilingly and walks away.]
Her response was surprising to me. I had not expected it. Especially not when I was feeling so low. Her bf objection was coming off as really weak and if I was more awake, there was a big chance that I could get some private time with her.
(I really wanted to find her and take her from her boyfriend, no matter who he was. That's how much she seduced me in the few moments we had)
And that was the start of a fvcking awesome night. I started to enjoy the music and the vibe more and I was letting loooooose. My mind didn't disturb me anymore and I was really living in the moment.
(Actually I was back in the self-amusement mood/vibe but with a higher degree of sexual intent than I ever was aware of.)
I was able to freely give, be creative in the moment mixed with sexuality which led to girls wanting to (or not able to resist) follow my lead.
I took an innocent blonde girl from her group 15 seconds after meeting her. She felt a bit uncomfortable but she was following.
I took a group of 4 girls, 2 stunning girls and moved them to meet my friends.
(One of the hot girls asked where she had seen me before. I get that a lot since I look like a reality-tv star here. I always reply with: "do you watch porn?" I think I got it from Johnny Soporno. It's gold.)
It ended up with hooking up with a sweet girl and in the end we got into some dirty things on the dance-floor.
Am I bragging? A bit because I'm proud of myself.
Though I hope there's something you can apply, when you go out yourself, from this Field Report.
- JL
1. Do whatever you want.. risk whatever your gut tells you because.. you know you have good intentions.
2. Pressure forms the man.
3. Clarity gives space for better decisions.