(11-02-2016, 03:11 PM)chaosvrgn Wrote:(11-02-2016, 02:08 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote: Also, hatred is not the strong absence of love, but the strong presence of hatred.
I was actually about to chime in and say the same thing. Hate and love are two manifestations of the same energy, just vibrating at different wavelengths (if you want to visualize it and can't understand the abstract). Both love and hatred involve an intense emotional investment in the entity of interest. The absence of love is apathy.
The question that no one wants to answer or confront is why women respond stronger sexually (regardless of whether they want a long-term relationship or a one time fling) to the dark, "hate" energy than to the much more positive love energy.
Sarge and I don't agree on everything, but he's definitely not off or wrong about this.
I don't have to answer or confront it because it directly violates my personal experience with regard to every sexual encounter I've had in my life. I have never, not once, experienced sex through anger, or any other "dark" energy.
The question you guys should ask yourselves is, why is that your experience? (Well, not Sarge - yet!)
