(11-02-2016, 12:33 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote: Yet more "proof" that hate would work better than being calm and collected.
You can't really compare hatred to calm and collected, as they are 2 different things. Comparing hatred to love on the other hand is valid, as they are at the extremes of the same "volume knob".
You have found that hatred works for you. That's the strong absence of love. In the same logic, the strong absence of hatred, which would be love, would work in the same way for you as well. Hope that makes sense.
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