02-15-2026, 02:26 PM
@Diablojack00 Yeah I was sort of culture shocked by my friend group a few years back. I think I was in my mid 20s at the time, and my friends treated me like a pariah for saying I'd sleep with an 18 year old. Even 21 they said was weird for me to hook up with. Mind you, these are supposed to be my friends, not some social justice warrior or performative group.
In my opinion if you're 1. Not hurting anyone. 2. They consent. 3. It's legal. Then there's no problem. I could rant more about this, but I feel like it wouldn't serve a point. There's so much messed up with our society right now and this is just one thing among many many more.
Social norms are in a weird place right now. I recommend thinking for yourself and coming to your own conclusions. Don't let your friends dictate how you live your life. (although still take it as objective data. Always good to get outside yourself and consider all sides without personal bias to gain from the perspective what you can).
Oh also, keep in mind your female friends are probably unconsciously trying to brainwash you not to sleep with younger women because it serves their biological agenda. Pay attention to the ages of the women who say that stuff most of the time. A lot of the time it's older women shaming older men for wanting younger women because their brain wants older men to want them and not the younger more attractive women. If you don't want to sleep with younger women make sure it comes from you, and not because you were psychologically arm twisted into having that view.
Looking forward to hear from your results when you start running DMSI!
In my opinion if you're 1. Not hurting anyone. 2. They consent. 3. It's legal. Then there's no problem. I could rant more about this, but I feel like it wouldn't serve a point. There's so much messed up with our society right now and this is just one thing among many many more.
Social norms are in a weird place right now. I recommend thinking for yourself and coming to your own conclusions. Don't let your friends dictate how you live your life. (although still take it as objective data. Always good to get outside yourself and consider all sides without personal bias to gain from the perspective what you can).
Oh also, keep in mind your female friends are probably unconsciously trying to brainwash you not to sleep with younger women because it serves their biological agenda. Pay attention to the ages of the women who say that stuff most of the time. A lot of the time it's older women shaming older men for wanting younger women because their brain wants older men to want them and not the younger more attractive women. If you don't want to sleep with younger women make sure it comes from you, and not because you were psychologically arm twisted into having that view.
Looking forward to hear from your results when you start running DMSI!

