02-15-2011, 02:58 PM
(02-15-2011, 02:38 PM)WildFlower Wrote: I've ran through both the Alpha Male set and Women Magnet and this, for me, is the one remaining discomfort that won't fully go away. Women Magnet actually helped a lot with this. Affirmations like: "I am now absolutely, irresistibly sexy" really helped with this (actually an affirmation from Aura of Sexiness, but I imagine Women Magnet would have similar affirmations) but sexy is still, not directly, about appearance - you can feel sexy without associating that sexiness to your appearance, you can feel sexy despite what you think about your appearance. And that is what happened for me; I became a Women Magnet because I was happy about my confidence, humor, personality, intelligence, and other traits. I actually felt like a Women Magnet because of my appearance - on some days anyway. I had moments - probably once a fortnight - where I'd think I was the best looking man on earth, then the next day the worst. It's this fluctuation I'd like to get this balanced and under control.
I've been taking 2 drops of Crab Apple Bach drops, morning and night, for about 4 months now, and they've had a slow, but steady impact on how I feel about my looks. I really think a Subliminal could kick this into touch once and for all though. to fat, to thin, to tall, to short, to pale, to tanned, I imagine most - if not all - people have insecurities about their appearance like that which our holding them back. For me it is more specific about my face, I think affirmations like, "I have an attractive, good looking, face" and "Every day I feel better and better about the way I look, because every day I get more and more good looking" would really help soothe the fluctuation. I don't want to self-delude myself into thinking I'm a super model, whilst not actually being aware of how I actually look (for better or worse) I just want to take the emotion out of body image fluctuation and get a more objective view.
I totally appreciate that Shannon and Andrew are way, way, too busy building 6 Stage set's and other 4G rebuild's before requests are taken into account - so I'm not asking for this now, just making the request heard for when the backlog has died down a bit. And if it isn't a title that anyone else would be interested in, I'd be happy to order it as a custom sub once customs are up and running again.
Another thing; I know I've posted this in the Men's request section, but I would imagine the script would be unisex. In fact, it would probably prove more popular with Women. The Body Shop once ran a survey asking Women to answer, 'never', 'occasionally', 'often', or 'always' if they felt uncomfortable about their appearance, in the situations listed below. It shows how we feel about how we look can have a big impact on our well being, and how we feel in numerous situations. I think it would be a popular sub.
At social gatherings where I know few people
When I look at myself in the mirror
When I am with attractive people
When someone looks at parts of my appearance that I dislike
When I try on new clothes
When I exercise
After I have eaten a full meal
When I am wearing revealing clothes
When I get on the scale to weigh myself
When I think someone has rejected me
When I am in a sexual situation
When I am in a bad mood
When I think about how I looked when I was younger
When I see myself in a photo or on video
When I think I've gained weight
When I think about what I wished I looked like
When I recall hurtful things people have said about my appearance
When I am with people who talk about weight or dieting
When I look at fashion magazines
When I think about going on holiday
Man, I have the same problems but I thought these subs would take care of that. I think it should definitely be included in future sets of Woman Magnet, Alpha Male, and Sex Magnet.