(09-01-2014, 08:49 AM)LionKing Wrote: Dirty talk. The ability to read her (what & how she likes it, her comfort/safety level), and to lead her effortlessly (think dancing). Evoke playfulness and a willingness to experiment in you & her. OGSF towards your fantasies. Being present. Natural eye contact & (raw) emotional connection. Moving fluently and using the right amount of force. Dealing with all dysfunctional beliefs about sex. Increase sex drive. Kill neediness. Liking condoms. Mind control over your boner (gathering & releasing tension).
I'd very much like a subliminal to help with having a choice to either ejaculate or not when reaching orgasm, i.e. "dry" orgasms. Otherwise I should be covered with SM3 (which isn't for exclusive relationships, though).
I really like these suggestions, all of them. Especially the "ejaculation by choice", this sub would give you control about your urges in a way that usually only a monk meditating 10 years in the mountains would have. I have yet to meet somebody normal (like non-uber-monk) who can hold his ejaculation in them for more than 3 months while having sex regularly.
Those "fapstronauts" don't count, as most of them don't have an active sex life. Sex makes you horny for more sex, not ejaculating makes you even hornier. Do both you'll gonna explode some time due to hornyness. The hornier you are, the more passionate and good in bed you are, (as long as you don't get overpowered by your hornyness and explode immediately)... It alters your presence, your aura. Go figure what this sub would do to your bed performance if you haven't released but accumulated your sexual energy for 6 months...
(I know some people who achieved SM3-like qualities *just* by increasing and holding their horniness at abnormal levels by having sex without ejaculation. Their horniness made them literally irresistable and "transferred" to every girl they met. I mean, they just look at a girl and she was going into trance as if deeply hypnotized... Girls couldn't resist their urge to f*ck them and then got addicted to their presence (&to the sex). They don't even know what pickup is and weren't naturals before that either.
No Subs, no game, nothing.)
