(06-16-2014, 01:18 PM)Shannon Wrote: "Perfect" depends on who is defining it, and what perfect is for them, both consciously and subconsciously, as they ask for it. Will it last? I don't know. I do know that when I have used programs like this to find "perfect" (lover/whatever), the relationship lasts for years for me. Your mileage may vary, and it may also vary because you may be in a state of rebound right now as well.
When you say that someone needs to define the term "perfect", do you mean that there is a possibility that they are my perfect, but that I am not their perfect ? Because if that's the case, that could be a cause for breakup isn't it ?
Also, has your breakup been bad emotionally ? If she was your perfect, the emotions were stronger during the breakup, how did you handle that ?