09-20-2014, 01:24 AM
Firstly, two hours is not a long time 
She could be doing anything.
If you are feeling this up tight it is probably coming across to her that way too and may make her nervous.
I would try deciding to yourself that you aren't going to look for any kind of relationship at all until you have finished AM; that should allow you just to have fun with girls. By fun, I mean hanging out, laughing, enjoying time together, etc - all the stuff you need for a good relationship. "relationship mindset" sounds a bit like you are trying to force something.
A better, more confident version of yourself will emerge at the end of AM. Finding a good relationship then will be much easier.
Anyway, I hope that the unsolicited advice isn't over stepping the mark
She could be doing anything.If you are feeling this up tight it is probably coming across to her that way too and may make her nervous.
I would try deciding to yourself that you aren't going to look for any kind of relationship at all until you have finished AM; that should allow you just to have fun with girls. By fun, I mean hanging out, laughing, enjoying time together, etc - all the stuff you need for a good relationship. "relationship mindset" sounds a bit like you are trying to force something.
A better, more confident version of yourself will emerge at the end of AM. Finding a good relationship then will be much easier.
Anyway, I hope that the unsolicited advice isn't over stepping the mark
Fear Is The Mind-killer
