09-29-2012, 04:09 PM
I haven't been able to do that for very long myself although I keep telling myself I want to.
The whole managing multiple relationships thing is a catch 22. If one has the time it suggests he doesn't have much going on with rest of his life or is sacrificing other parts of his life - yet a guy who has a lot going on, and is not willing to sacrifice those other things, might have a healthy balance between his investment to himself and women. Modern marvels of time management or those who live in wealthy leisure don't apply.
I think it's really a personal preference with no rule. It depends upon the lifestyle.
The whole managing multiple relationships thing is a catch 22. If one has the time it suggests he doesn't have much going on with rest of his life or is sacrificing other parts of his life - yet a guy who has a lot going on, and is not willing to sacrifice those other things, might have a healthy balance between his investment to himself and women. Modern marvels of time management or those who live in wealthy leisure don't apply.
I think it's really a personal preference with no rule. It depends upon the lifestyle.