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Today, 02:47 PM
Post: #201
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Hmm. Much to think about from that, thank you Sick. Interestingly, had that talk with my social skills coach today, how to relate. and how you don't have to relate with everyything, just deep shit. Perhaps that's why I'm getting more and more in my determined mind set (formerly I called it my "hate" mind set) and seeing some interesting effects.

Today when I came home a woman and her child were walking along the sidewalk as I headed home. We nearly collided and that tells me something about this state.

The bizarre thing is: women like me in this state but I won't engage them in this state. So I wonder how that will end up working out.

The woman was cute, definitely f*ckable.

Anyhow, I'd write some more but I gotta head off to work.

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Today, 03:12 PM
Post: #202
RE: SargeMaximus: I Feel It Coming [DMSI 3.1 Valid Tester]
I don't know, dude. I mean, how much "social skills" can you learn anyway? Sounds like pretty generic stuff to me.

Maybe that's why you're confused about things. You get some stuff from this coach, some from a self help book, some from various posts on this forum and any other sources I'm not aware of.

"I remember doing the scenes with William Hurt, who was a pretty big movie star at the time. And I'm thinking: "Well, if that's a movie star, I'm not going to have no problem in this town." So, you know, the attitude. It was there from the start." - Mickey Rourke
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Today, 04:05 PM (This post was last modified: Today 04:23 PM by SargeMaximus.)
Post: #203
RE: SargeMaximus: I Feel It Coming [DMSI 3.1 Valid Tester]
(Today 03:12 PM)Sickologist Wrote:  I don't know, dude. I mean, how much "social skills" can you learn anyway? Sounds like pretty generic stuff to me.

Maybe that's why you're confused about things. You get some stuff from this coach, some from a self help book, some from various posts on this forum and any other sources I'm not aware of.

Yeah maybe, but I think if you're right about needing charisma then that could be a major thing I need to work on. Aside from pick up I have no hobbies and prolly seem boring even tho, IMO. Most people with hobbies are boring cause they're not doing pick up lol

I'm just trying to understand it man. That's why all the different sources.

EDIT: or (my latest theory here) is that I need to be aligned with whatever a woman of interest expects from a man shed f*ck. I have no idea how to do that but it's similar to what I do in sales.

It's also exactly what I did with my hairdresser only I f*cked it up by becoming alpha when in fact she wanted beta.

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Today, 04:53 PM
Post: #204
RE: SargeMaximus: I Feel It Coming [DMSI 3.1 Valid Tester]
Maybe working in sales is screwing you over otherwise, if you're still in that mindset "selling stuff" to girls too. It's better to take on a buyers mindset like "what you got?"

If the woman responds to betafied pussies, they can have each other.

"I remember doing the scenes with William Hurt, who was a pretty big movie star at the time. And I'm thinking: "Well, if that's a movie star, I'm not going to have no problem in this town." So, you know, the attitude. It was there from the start." - Mickey Rourke
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Today, 05:12 PM
Post: #205
RE: SargeMaximus: I Feel It Coming [DMSI 3.1 Valid Tester]
(Today 04:53 PM)Sickologist Wrote:  Maybe working in sales is screwing you over otherwise, if you're still in that mindset "selling stuff" to girls too. It's better to take on a buyers mindset like "what you got?"

If the woman responds to betafied pussies, they can have each other.

Ok that makes sense because I've gotten lots of numbers doing that exact same mindset (and it's what I was doing online too). HOWEVER, why do you need to relate to the girl then? And can the "what do you got?" mindset be exclusively about sex?

And then, if that's the case, why do you care what impressiuon you're making on a girl at all? Shouldn't it be the other way around?

To be clear: I've always thought so. When I first started pick up: that was my WHOLE way of approaching things. So maybe I'm just off course.

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Today, 05:28 PM
Post: #206
RE: SargeMaximus: I Feel It Coming [DMSI 3.1 Valid Tester]
(Today 04:05 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote:  Aside from pick up I have no hobbies and prolly seem boring even tho, IMO. Most people with hobbies are boring cause they're not doing pick up lol

I've actually found it to be the other way around, that people with hobbies turn out to not be boring, whether they do pickup or not, because they're doing something. Particularly, doing stuff outside of one's comfort zone seems to lead people to consider that person "adventurous" (usually in a good way).

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Today, 05:29 PM
Post: #207
RE: SargeMaximus: I Feel It Coming [DMSI 3.1 Valid Tester]
As an aside: I should mention that I didn't do sales today. After my session with my social skills coach I was feeling really f*cked up and it was windy and cold anyways so I called it.

As I was waiting in my car, however, I saw a really cute girl walk past. She looked at me and I looked at her in a sort of "will she want me?" way, and of course she looks up and sticks her nose in the air. I realize I was in the wrong frame, and then Sick's post seemed to get me back on track, but then I wondered how I'm gonna end up in the same room with a girl when I'm so averse to them normally.

I mean seriously, I just walk past them like they're invisible normally. No feelings even when talking to them.

DMSI NEEDS to work for me because I won't approach a woman normally. Still, I'll try to integrate approaching with this mindset tomorrow.

I know I had a breakthrough yesterday.

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Today, 05:35 PM
Post: #208
RE: SargeMaximus: I Feel It Coming [DMSI 3.1 Valid Tester]
(Today 05:28 PM)apollolux Wrote:  
(Today 04:05 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote:  Aside from pick up I have no hobbies and prolly seem boring even tho, IMO. Most people with hobbies are boring cause they're not doing pick up lol

I've actually found it to be the other way around, that people with hobbies turn out to not be boring, whether they do pickup or not, because they're doing something. Particularly, doing stuff outside of one's comfort zone seems to lead people to consider that person "adventurous" (usually in a good way).

Yeah well when I was at the height of my approaching in 2015, a girl said I must do something adventurous for a living. I guess the vibe I had was adventurous.

But I'm just saying that for me, personally, people's hobbies are boring, and so are they, to ME.

And, by extension, taking up cooking or pottery sounds more boring to me than getting good at pick up.

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Today, 08:14 PM
Post: #209
RE: SargeMaximus: I Feel It Coming [DMSI 3.1 Valid Tester]
Just got back from the gym. Forgot my shoes and didn't notice till I was on my way to the locker room. Decided to not care, so I wore my boots and watch while in my under armor. Felt very DGAF.

When I was back in the locker room some guy (not ripped, but definitely muscular and is serious about working out by his physique) was dressing from his locker right beside mine. Without a word I moved the door to his locker so I could get at my lock better. He then came over, grabbed all his stuff and dressed away to give me space.

Then, when exiting the door, he held it open for me. Some unfortunate girl who was coming IN thought it was for her and said "thanks" getting no reply, then when we went through the second door I said "thanks man" and he goes "no problem"

Yeah.

Still unsure how women are gonna seduce me, but I guess it's time I trust they will. Looking over my life I can definitely see a difference in behavior of women who are attracted to you vs. those who aren't. I definitely believe a sufficiently attracted women will seduce a man. There's no doubt anymore.

I just hope it's the women I want.

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