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01-07-2017, 09:24 PM
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(01-07-2017 06:45 PM)bits Wrote:  
(01-07-2017 10:11 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote:  I don't get why you'd need to tell women what you see in them though... Confused

Well its no secret that women are complex but to simplify it they have 2 modes of attraction:

1) quick attraction - sex appeal, wealth, social status, charisma, confidence, dominance, etc...

2) deep attraction - emotional connection, comfort, safety, understanding, acceptance, etc

The problem for women is that each one of those filters out the other, this is why women can say "there are no good men" even though they seem to have more options available than ever or why they'll be dating a good looking hedge fund manager one month and then dump him and run back to their broke and overweight ex-boyfriend from high school.

You can be 20/10 on #1 but if you're 0/10 on #2 it's not going to go fore more than a 10 minute conversation or with a very small subset of girls who only care about #1

But if you're 0/10 #1 and 20/10 on #2 then she won't even think you have a penis.

Most women try to find a guy whos more balanced and maybe a 6/10 on both over a guy who is 8/10 on #1 but 3/10 on #2. Even in party city like Vegas or Prague where girls are already in a "1 night stand hookup" mood and trying to dress as sexy as possible you can see lots of good looking guys trying to escalate on girls right off the bat and the girls probably enjoy it but those guys will have to approach 10-20 women before they get an instant pull or bathroom pull.

The guys in those cities who have the easiest pulls and have the most abundance are the ones who can make girls laugh, show them a good time, while spiking in a little bit of #1 here and there.

You can also see this very easily with pheromones, guys hear about them and immediately go for something super sexual like primal instinct or NPA - 100% pure sexual and will make any woman within 5-10 ft of you super horny and wet - but the only guys who get laid from those types of pheromones without mixing them are guys who are already in a relationship and have established emotional connection. The guys who use something 100% social (which allows for rapid emotional connection but no hornyness/wetness) have a much higher success rate with hookups. Luckily pheromone companies saw this quickly and all of the most effective mixes are 50-60% sexual and 50% - 40% social.

The reason for telling a woman what you see in them is because it helps establish #2 and the more attractive a woman is, the more of a emotional connection she will want. All her life she's heard that she's hot/cute/sexy but all of those guys will be a blur in her mind and she won't even remember their faces. But ask her about the guys who she felt "understood her" and she'll remember their name, face, where they met, where their first date was, and yes, what his bedroom looked like Wink Sadly for most women, even the super hot ones, they'll only go through their lives meeting 1 or 2 such guys who they feel really gets and understands them.

Luckily for us men we don't have to be a 10/10 on emotional connection because we tend to be terrible at it and women lower their expectations, but a simple "i like how you do x" or "my favorite thing about you x_personality_characteristic" means a lot to women.

Hmm, ok so I definitely need to work on #2.

with the milf, this is what I suspect happened. I switched to #1 and lost her. I gotta get more #2 going... how can I do that? What do I need to do?

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01-07-2017, 10:08 PM
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RE: Develop Maximum Sexual Irresistibility 5.5G discussion thread
I have got the impression sometimes she's needed a bit of reassurance. Such as when she told me she couldn't wait to see me and I was just like *kiss* then she didn't reply.

But anyway, she come down yesterday and in person there was no bs or anything like I suspected from how she started being with messages, so I don't know what to think really.
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01-07-2017, 10:13 PM
Post: #1703
RE: Develop Maximum Sexual Irresistibility 5.5G discussion thread
(01-07-2017 10:08 PM)Benjamin Wrote:  I have got the impression sometimes she's needed a bit of reassurance. Such as when she told me she couldn't wait to see me and I was just like *kiss* then she didn't reply.

But anyway, she come down yesterday and in person there was no bs or anything like I suspected from how she started being with messages, so I don't know what to think really.

I'm having the same thing. :/

I hope when I see this girl in person we can have our fire back. Maybe she just got spooked a little by me getting over eager.

Did your girl not text you at all till she saw you again?

Also, as far as reassurance goes, how far do you let it go before you realize it's "emotional tampon" territory? What I mean is, how much is healthy reassurance vs. too much?

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01-08-2017, 12:34 AM
Post: #1704
RE: Develop Maximum Sexual Irresistibility 5.5G discussion thread
(01-06-2017 11:46 AM)Jaeger Wrote:  So I just bought DMSI, and wow... We've got FLAC! Smile

Is there a noticable difference between the hybrid and masked tracks? This is new to me as well.

I'll be using this later on tonight with my S7 and VLC player.

Yes. Hybrid is the most powerful, and masked is generally the least powerful - although for people who resist ultrasonics, that may not be the case.

You want to use hybrid whenever possible.

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01-08-2017, 12:38 AM
Post: #1705
RE: Develop Maximum Sexual Irresistibility 5.5G discussion thread
(01-06-2017 12:05 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote:  
(01-06-2017 01:12 AM)Shannon Wrote:  
(01-05-2017 04:35 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote:  
(01-05-2017 03:34 PM)Shannon Wrote:  Same thing is true for women. That you get results within terms of women is who is vibing on your frequency.

This is interesting Shannon.

Is there a way to get DMSI to tune us to specific women we want or get them to tune to us?

What do you suppose it's doing, hmmm? Of course I have to keep it at a subconscious level, because you guys will screw yourselves if I made that full conscious control. But there is partial conscious control.

Hmm, I'm not understanding you. I get that consciously sniping/influencing women could be bad if used the wrong way. But is there at least a way that DMSI can help us get the woman we want with SATT?

Again, what do you think it's doing, hmmm?

Quote:Also, what if we want different women that are both very different in personality, life circumstances, etc. Can we still get them both/all?

Why not?

Quote:EDIT: Oh and also, what if like in Ben's case we get higher value than the woman, and aren't vibing anymore. Can DMSI still get her?

DMSI will respond to a woman according to how and how much you are attracted to her. The more ways and the more you are attracted... the more it will affect her. If you have outgrown a woman, generally, you won;t be attracted, and the question becomes a moot point.

Quote:EDIT 2: In regards to different types of women, what I mean is, could I, say, be having sex with a single mother who works as a waitress and a high-level female CEO who has her life in order? And could this be done at the same time (i.e. for the same months/years I'm sleeping with both)? Will DMSI allow us to adjust (or get the women to adjust) so that we can deal with them on an individual basis?

Sure. Presuming you are sufficiently attracted to them.

DMSI automatically guides you to respond to each woman in the best possible way, which means, whatever she wants/needs. This happens through OE and NS, and will be enhanced and expanded on in upcoming versions.

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01-08-2017, 12:41 AM
Post: #1706
RE: Develop Maximum Sexual Irresistibility 5.5G discussion thread
Quote:I'm having the same thing. :/

I hope when I see this girl in person we can have our fire back. Maybe she just got spooked a little by me getting over eager.

Did your girl not text you at all till she saw you again?

Also, as far as reassurance goes, how far do you let it go before you realize it's "emotional tampon" territory? What I mean is, how much is healthy reassurance vs. too much?

Yeah she sent another one later that day, and every single day haha.

Hmm I don't know, if you're doing it from a place of "Oh I have to because i'm insecure" then it's bad as opposed to it just coming from natural self expression.
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01-08-2017, 05:19 AM
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RE: Develop Maximum Sexual Irresistibility 5.5G discussion thread
(01-08-2017 12:38 AM)Shannon Wrote:  
(01-06-2017 12:05 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote:  
(01-06-2017 01:12 AM)Shannon Wrote:  
(01-05-2017 04:35 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote:  
(01-05-2017 03:34 PM)Shannon Wrote:  Same thing is true for women. That you get results within terms of women is who is vibing on your frequency.

This is interesting Shannon.

Is there a way to get DMSI to tune us to specific women we want or get them to tune to us?

What do you suppose it's doing, hmmm? Of course I have to keep it at a subconscious level, because you guys will screw yourselves if I made that full conscious control. But there is partial conscious control.

Hmm, I'm not understanding you. I get that consciously sniping/influencing women could be bad if used the wrong way. But is there at least a way that DMSI can help us get the woman we want with SATT?

Again, what do you think it's doing, hmmm?

:o

Awesome! Smile

(01-08-2017 12:38 AM)Shannon Wrote:  
Quote:Also, what if we want different women that are both very different in personality, life circumstances, etc. Can we still get them both/all?

Why not?

Well because you said we can fall out of frequency with a woman.

(01-08-2017 12:38 AM)Shannon Wrote:  
Quote:EDIT: Oh and also, what if like in Ben's case we get higher value than the woman, and aren't vibing anymore. Can DMSI still get her?

DMSI will respond to a woman according to how and how much you are attracted to her. The more ways and the more you are attracted... the more it will affect her. If you have outgrown a woman, generally, you won;t be attracted, and the question becomes a moot point.

I see.

(01-08-2017 12:38 AM)Shannon Wrote:  
Quote:EDIT 2: In regards to different types of women, what I mean is, could I, say, be having sex with a single mother who works as a waitress and a high-level female CEO who has her life in order? And could this be done at the same time (i.e. for the same months/years I'm sleeping with both)? Will DMSI allow us to adjust (or get the women to adjust) so that we can deal with them on an individual basis?

Sure. Presuming you are sufficiently attracted to them.

DMSI automatically guides you to respond to each woman in the best possible way, which means, whatever she wants/needs. This happens through OE and NS, and will be enhanced and expanded on in upcoming versions.

Good to know, thanks. Looking forward to this getting amplified.

Also, are you going to make it more obvious for us consciously so that we don't have to guess what a woman wants?

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01-08-2017, 05:25 AM
Post: #1708
RE: Develop Maximum Sexual Irresistibility 5.5G discussion thread
(01-08-2017 12:41 AM)Benjamin Wrote:  
Quote:I'm having the same thing. :/

I hope when I see this girl in person we can have our fire back. Maybe she just got spooked a little by me getting over eager.

Did your girl not text you at all till she saw you again?

Also, as far as reassurance goes, how far do you let it go before you realize it's "emotional tampon" territory? What I mean is, how much is healthy reassurance vs. too much?

Yeah she sent another one later that day, and every single day haha.

Hmm I don't know, if you're doing it from a place of "Oh I have to because i'm insecure" then it's bad as opposed to it just coming from natural self expression.

Why would one reassure someone when one is insecure??

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01-08-2017, 10:11 AM (This post was last modified: 01-08-2017 10:12 AM by ImFreeman.)
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RE: Develop Maximum Sexual Irresistibility 5.5G discussion thread
(01-08-2017 12:38 AM)Shannon Wrote:  DMSI will respond to a woman according to how and how much you are attracted to her. The more ways and the more you are attracted... the more it will affect her. If you have outgrown a woman, generally, you won;t be attracted, and the question becomes a moot point.

Shannon, whenever i feel a girl is not attracted/interested in me, im really put off. Like i probably wouln't have an erection easily with her, no matter how hot she is.

So even if she is sexually attractive to me before we had any interaction, if during said interaction her body language is kinda uninterested and rejecting me, I will lose attraction to her.

How badly would this affect DMSI performance ?. Is there any other way to trigger the sniper?.

For example the other day i spent a whole afternoon with a girl who was totally not into me, but she was smoking hot. But nevertheless i had no positive effect on her. And her rejection and dismissal of me made me even less interested in her, and she in me.

It's a catch22 of inceldom
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01-08-2017, 11:25 AM (This post was last modified: 01-11-2017 07:48 PM by RisingSon.)
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RE: Develop Maximum Sexual Irresistibility 5.5G discussion thread
(01-08-2017 10:11 AM)ImFreeman Wrote:  
(01-08-2017 12:38 AM)Shannon Wrote:  DMSI will respond to a woman according to how and how much you are attracted to her. The more ways and the more you are attracted... the more it will affect her. If you have outgrown a woman, generally, you won;t be attracted, and the question becomes a moot point.

Shannon, whenever i feel a girl is not attracted/interested in me, im really put off. Like i probably wouln't have an erection easily with her, no matter how hot she is.

So even if she is sexually attractive to me before we had any interaction, if during said interaction her body language is kinda uninterested and rejecting me, I will lose attraction to her.

How badly would this affect DMSI performance ?. Is there any other way to trigger the sniper?.

For example the other day i spent a whole afternoon with a girl who was totally not into me, but she was smoking hot. But nevertheless i had no positive effect on her. And her rejection and dismissal of me made me even less interested in her, and she in me.

It's a catch22 of inceldom

Eh... Dude... Why are you even hanging around females who don't see you as attractive? Come on, that just reeks of...
Just don't waste your time. Women aren't that interesting.

So, find some self-esteem and looksmax or whatever you incels do. Wink

Remember, in natural relationships, MEN are the stimulus and women are the response. So you as a male have to be amazingly aesthetic, have the status/resources, or be the funnest thing going on for this babe to be attracted to you. Since society has it backwards and glorifies females as a stimulus, the relationship simply will continue to not be fulfilling for both parties. Being a dancing PUA monkey doesn't work, neither does going with the overly respectful beta being her friend approach. It's simple stimulus - response.

Now something from my favorite youtube psychologist. He says women are after security foremost, not sex. And that it's the male's job to "sexually develop" the female to be sexually responsive, also develop (or I would say challenge) her emotionally. He also speaks a lot on how we get our validation in both genders. AM6 knocked out my need for female approval or validation.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VdNeIgAAaVU
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01-08-2017, 11:42 AM (This post was last modified: 01-08-2017 12:14 PM by RisingSon.)
Post: #1711
RE: Develop Maximum Sexual Irresistibility 5.5G discussion thread
(01-08-2017 05:25 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote:  
(01-08-2017 12:41 AM)Benjamin Wrote:  
Quote:I'm having the same thing. :/

I hope when I see this girl in person we can have our fire back. Maybe she just got spooked a little by me getting over eager.

Did your girl not text you at all till she saw you again?

Also, as far as reassurance goes, how far do you let it go before you realize it's "emotional tampon" territory? What I mean is, how much is healthy reassurance vs. too much?

Yeah she sent another one later that day, and every single day haha.

Hmm I don't know, if you're doing it from a place of "Oh I have to because i'm insecure" then it's bad as opposed to it just coming from natural self expression.

Why would one reassure someone when one is insecure??

Reassuring people who are insecure is a terrible idea. It's like dog training. You never comfort a scared or upset dog, because that reinforces it.

That's why I always tell people to stop being beta then get banned for it lol.
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01-08-2017, 02:36 PM
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RE: Develop Maximum Sexual Irresistibility 5.5G discussion thread
There's a distinct difference between reassuring someone and empowering them. I'd go with empowering, help them change their mind about themselves, rather than placating their weakness that they're insecure about.
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01-08-2017, 02:44 PM
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RE: Develop Maximum Sexual Irresistibility 5.5G discussion thread
(01-08-2017 02:36 PM)RTBoss Wrote:  There's a distinct difference between reassuring someone and empowering them. I'd go with empowering, help them change their mind about themselves, rather than placating their weakness that they're insecure about.

Ok, good to know. Because the milf I'm after seems to be a bit unsure of herself. I tried to encourage her but noticed she was slipping into a state where she was hoping I'd keep reassuring her (I think) so I stopped.

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01-08-2017, 02:58 PM (This post was last modified: 01-08-2017 02:59 PM by RTBoss.)
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RE: Develop Maximum Sexual Irresistibility 5.5G discussion thread
(01-08-2017 02:44 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote:  
(01-08-2017 02:36 PM)RTBoss Wrote:  There's a distinct difference between reassuring someone and empowering them. I'd go with empowering, help them change their mind about themselves, rather than placating their weakness that they're insecure about.

Ok, good to know. Because the milf I'm after seems to be a bit unsure of herself. I tried to encourage her but noticed she was slipping into a state where she was hoping I'd keep reassuring her (I think) so I stopped.

Yeah, if she can't see what you're saying or internalize it, definitely back it off. If, after some time, you feel it's appropriate to re-engage her about it, perhaps you'll catch her being more open - and if not, drop it.

All women need to be lifted up here & there, but it's the ones who are black-holes of neediness ya gotta steer clear of. You'll get the life sucked outta ya.
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01-08-2017, 03:03 PM
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RE: Develop Maximum Sexual Irresistibility 5.5G discussion thread
(01-08-2017 11:25 AM)RisingSon Wrote:  Eh... Dude... Why are you even hanging around females who don't see you as attractive? Come on, that just reeks of...
Just don't waste your time. Women aren't that interesting.

So, find some self-esteem and looksmax or whatever you incels do. Wink

Remember, in natural relationships, MEN are the stimulus and women are the response. So you as a male have to be amazingly aesthetic, have the status/resources, or be the funnest thing going on for this babe to be attracted to you. Since society has it backwards and glorifies females as a stimulus, the relationship simply will continue to not be fulfilling for both parties. Being a dancing PUA monkey doesn't work, neither does going with the overly respectful beta being her friend approach. It's simple stimulus - response.

Now something from my favorite youtube psychologist. He says women are after security foremost, not sex. And that it's the male's job to "sexually develop" the female to be sexually responsive, also develop (or I would say challenge) her emotionally. He also speaks a lot on how we get our validation in both genders. Men, and I could say myself personally, aren't necessarily after sex but female validation.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VdNeIgAAaVU


Because sometimes life throws at you beautiful women who want nothing to do with you. It wasn't planned she happened to be were i was at the time, and would have been grateful if Dmsi would've helped get the lay. But nada unfortunately

And don't worry i got away and stopped wasting time ASAP.
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01-08-2017, 03:12 PM
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RE: Develop Maximum Sexual Irresistibility 5.5G discussion thread
(01-08-2017 02:58 PM)RTBoss Wrote:  
(01-08-2017 02:44 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote:  
(01-08-2017 02:36 PM)RTBoss Wrote:  There's a distinct difference between reassuring someone and empowering them. I'd go with empowering, help them change their mind about themselves, rather than placating their weakness that they're insecure about.

Ok, good to know. Because the milf I'm after seems to be a bit unsure of herself. I tried to encourage her but noticed she was slipping into a state where she was hoping I'd keep reassuring her (I think) so I stopped.

Yeah, if she can't see what you're saying or internalize it, definitely back it off. If, after some time, you feel it's appropriate to re-engage her about it, perhaps you'll catch her being more open - and if not, drop it.

All women need to be lifted up here & there, but it's the ones who are black-holes of neediness ya gotta steer clear of. You'll get the life sucked outta ya.

Yeah I know. My mom is like that and so I have a f*cked up reference point for women lol.

Anyhow thanks. Smile

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01-08-2017, 04:14 PM
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RE: Develop Maximum Sexual Irresistibility 5.5G discussion thread
Quote:That's why I always tell people to stop being beta then get banned for it lol.

Funny how you try to downplay what you were really doing. Does this mean there's going to be more issues?
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01-08-2017, 04:19 PM
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RE: Develop Maximum Sexual Irresistibility 5.5G discussion thread
Quote:Why would one reassure someone when one is insecure??

Oh when I wrote that I was kind of thinking of the difference between just appreciating someone and enjoying them in a natural way and commenting on that if you feel like it versus being insecure and sucking up to them every moment.
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01-08-2017, 04:47 PM
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(01-08-2017 04:19 PM)Benjamin Wrote:  
Quote:Why would one reassure someone when one is insecure??

Oh when I wrote that I was kind of thinking of the difference between just appreciating someone and enjoying them in a natural way and commenting on that if you feel like it versus being insecure and sucking up to them every moment.

Oh ok. Thanks for clarifying.

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01-11-2017, 05:42 AM (This post was last modified: 01-11-2017 06:04 AM by RisingSon.)
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RE: Develop Maximum Sexual Irresistibility 5.5G discussion thread
I had a thought come to me this morning that reinforces my males - stimulus, female - response theory.

Take strip clubs. Guys go there, the women are on stage. The guys pay out the ass to even just look at some T&A, NO TOUCHING! (lol), and the women are generally not enthused but just there for the cash. What you get is a dysfunctional environment with a bunch of frustrated chumps. Also, most strippers have SERIOUS issues.

Then there are male strippers... Women of all kinds turn into the absolutely most vile animals and perform the raunchiest sex acts on these male strippers in front of the company of their girlfriends without a second thought, then probably end up bragging among themselves for weeks. If you haven't seen or heard how women behave with male strippers then you are in for a wake up call. Male strippers usually come away psychologically intact.

What you want is basically DMSI to turn you into a male stripper in a room of good looking bridesmaids.
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