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01-05-2017, 08:51 PM
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(01-05-2017 03:34 PM)Shannon Wrote:  
(01-05-2017 02:42 AM)Benjamin Wrote:  Shannon what could explain the fact that starting DMSI this girl i've been seeing has gone really weird. All the time during E2 and such there was no games the whole time I was seeing her, no bs or anything like that.

Now during DMSI all of a sudden she's doing stuff like taking forever to respond where she never did that before like she's playing weird games and her messages seem different, hard to say but I picked up a vibe of confusion the way some of her messages have been. It's like she's trying to pull out every little stop to try to get me to chase or something, part of this may be that I said no to being her boyfriend 2 weeks ago, but i've noticed it all since starting DMSI which was around a week after that.

Stuff like today being sexual then all of a sudden not replying, taking forever to reply, or ignoring some of my sexual talk where she used to run with it one day, then today suddenly bringing it up herself "oh i'm sitting here wearing a towel" then "If you were here i'd let the towel drop". I answered like 10 minutes later and then she didn't reply for like 4 hours. You know those type of games that she never has done before until DMSI.

But in myself i'm feeling stronger, my drive is coming back that I haven't for a while and generally people are responding better. But she's gone really weird on me.

It's a little painful because I like her and she went from full on all over me, to this especially the last few days and it's been increasing since starting DMSI.. but if that's what is required to move forward with what is happening from DMSI then so be it I guess. I'm just confused myself what's happening.

This is an external manifestation of proof that you are changing, Ben. You had her on E2 because she was on "that vibe" and now you're changing your vibe to something different, and she's responding to that according to how well it fits now.

When you start changing radio stations, you start getting static until you find one that "vibes" with your tuner...

Same thing is true for women. That you get results within terms of women is who is vibing on your frequency.

But he's attracted to her. So does this mean that you may end up losing girls that were interested even though you're attracted to them? Or is it a transition phase? I just dont understand how DMSI could result in losing a girl that was already attracted before you even started.
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01-06-2017, 01:12 AM
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RE: Develop Maximum Sexual Irresistibility 5.5G discussion thread
(01-05-2017 04:35 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote:  
(01-05-2017 03:34 PM)Shannon Wrote:  Same thing is true for women. That you get results within terms of women is who is vibing on your frequency.

This is interesting Shannon.

Is there a way to get DMSI to tune us to specific women we want or get them to tune to us?

What do you suppose it's doing, hmmm? Of course I have to keep it at a subconscious level, because you guys will screw yourselves if I made that full conscious control. But there is partial conscious control.

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01-06-2017, 01:15 AM
Post: #1683
RE: Develop Maximum Sexual Irresistibility 5.5G discussion thread
(01-05-2017 08:51 PM)maxx55 Wrote:  
(01-05-2017 03:34 PM)Shannon Wrote:  
(01-05-2017 02:42 AM)Benjamin Wrote:  Shannon what could explain the fact that starting DMSI this girl i've been seeing has gone really weird. All the time during E2 and such there was no games the whole time I was seeing her, no bs or anything like that.

Now during DMSI all of a sudden she's doing stuff like taking forever to respond where she never did that before like she's playing weird games and her messages seem different, hard to say but I picked up a vibe of confusion the way some of her messages have been. It's like she's trying to pull out every little stop to try to get me to chase or something, part of this may be that I said no to being her boyfriend 2 weeks ago, but i've noticed it all since starting DMSI which was around a week after that.

Stuff like today being sexual then all of a sudden not replying, taking forever to reply, or ignoring some of my sexual talk where she used to run with it one day, then today suddenly bringing it up herself "oh i'm sitting here wearing a towel" then "If you were here i'd let the towel drop". I answered like 10 minutes later and then she didn't reply for like 4 hours. You know those type of games that she never has done before until DMSI.

But in myself i'm feeling stronger, my drive is coming back that I haven't for a while and generally people are responding better. But she's gone really weird on me.

It's a little painful because I like her and she went from full on all over me, to this especially the last few days and it's been increasing since starting DMSI.. but if that's what is required to move forward with what is happening from DMSI then so be it I guess. I'm just confused myself what's happening.

This is an external manifestation of proof that you are changing, Ben. You had her on E2 because she was on "that vibe" and now you're changing your vibe to something different, and she's responding to that according to how well it fits now.

When you start changing radio stations, you start getting static until you find one that "vibes" with your tuner...

Same thing is true for women. That you get results within terms of women is who is vibing on your frequency.

But he's attracted to her. So does this mean that you may end up losing girls that were interested even though you're attracted to them? Or is it a transition phase? I just dont understand how DMSI could result in losing a girl that was already attracted before you even started.

If you run DMSI and lose the interest of a woman, then...

DMSI has raised you above her, and she is no longer what you are currently vibing with. Now, you're vibing with someone/something higher, better, more advanced.

And remember, DMSI affects women according to how attracted you are, and women love to play this game called "shit testing" when they sense a man is increasing or has increased in value.

High value men pass these tests typically by shutting them down, and/or not putting up with them.

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01-06-2017, 02:35 AM (This post was last modified: 01-06-2017 02:36 AM by Benjamin.)
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RE: Develop Maximum Sexual Irresistibility 5.5G discussion thread
Cool thanks Shannon, it makes more sense after that second post. I had to think about the first post and was confused and felt bad if that was what is happening like I did something bad. But when I read it's most likely that i'm increasing in value I feel better about it.

The thing is this happened so quickly. And it's definately just as confusing for me. Tonight I wrote in my journal that I don't really know where I stand and i'm a little confused about "what do I like" when it comes to girls, and even found myself looking at different girls than usual on tinder with interest, so it's all pretty confusing right now.

I'm not exactly sure how to deal with what she has currently been doing, but what I do know is it's stupid especially if she decides to step it up by 'attacking' me (not physically obviously) for example when I see her in person because all that would do is push me away.

I haven't seen her in person since before starting DMSI by the way, because I worked new years I wasn't able to see her that weekend.
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01-06-2017, 11:46 AM
Post: #1685
RE: Develop Maximum Sexual Irresistibility 5.5G discussion thread
So I just bought DMSI, and wow... We've got FLAC! Smile

Is there a noticable difference between the hybrid and masked tracks? This is new to me as well.

I'll be using this later on tonight with my S7 and VLC player.
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01-06-2017, 12:05 PM (This post was last modified: 01-06-2017 12:26 PM by SargeMaximus.)
Post: #1686
RE: Develop Maximum Sexual Irresistibility 5.5G discussion thread
(01-06-2017 01:12 AM)Shannon Wrote:  
(01-05-2017 04:35 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote:  
(01-05-2017 03:34 PM)Shannon Wrote:  Same thing is true for women. That you get results within terms of women is who is vibing on your frequency.

This is interesting Shannon.

Is there a way to get DMSI to tune us to specific women we want or get them to tune to us?

What do you suppose it's doing, hmmm? Of course I have to keep it at a subconscious level, because you guys will screw yourselves if I made that full conscious control. But there is partial conscious control.

Hmm, I'm not understanding you. I get that consciously sniping/influencing women could be bad if used the wrong way. But is there at least a way that DMSI can help us get the woman we want with SATT?

Also, what if we want different women that are both very different in personality, life circumstances, etc. Can we still get them both/all?

EDIT: Oh and also, what if like in Ben's case we get higher value than the woman, and aren't vibing anymore. Can DMSI still get her?

EDIT 2: In regards to different types of women, what I mean is, could I, say, be having sex with a single mother who works as a waitress and a high-level female CEO who has her life in order? And could this be done at the same time (i.e. for the same months/years I'm sleeping with both)? Will DMSI allow us to adjust (or get the women to adjust) so that we can deal with them on an individual basis?

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01-06-2017, 02:00 PM
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(01-06-2017 12:05 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote:  
(01-06-2017 01:12 AM)Shannon Wrote:  
(01-05-2017 04:35 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote:  
(01-05-2017 03:34 PM)Shannon Wrote:  Same thing is true for women. That you get results within terms of women is who is vibing on your frequency.

This is interesting Shannon.

Is there a way to get DMSI to tune us to specific women we want or get them to tune to us?

What do you suppose it's doing, hmmm? Of course I have to keep it at a subconscious level, because you guys will screw yourselves if I made that full conscious control. But there is partial conscious control.

Hmm, I'm not understanding you. I get that consciously sniping/influencing women could be bad if used the wrong way. But is there at least a way that DMSI can help us get the woman we want with SATT?

Also, what if we want different women that are both very different in personality, life circumstances, etc. Can we still get them both/all?

EDIT: Oh and also, what if like in Ben's case we get higher value than the woman, and aren't vibing anymore. Can DMSI still get her?

EDIT 2: In regards to different types of women, what I mean is, could I, say, be having sex with a single mother who works as a waitress and a high-level female CEO who has her life in order? And could this be done at the same time (i.e. for the same months/years I'm sleeping with both)? Will DMSI allow us to adjust (or get the women to adjust) so that we can deal with them on an individual basis?

This is a good point Sarge. If you're level 10, but you're attracted to a girl that's an 8 and of course you're attracted to a 10, you shouldn't have a problem with either. The unpopular would always do whatever to be in the popular crowd. The popular have no problem being in the crowd. Regardless, the popular have access to any crowd they choose. The same principle should be applied for DMSI. No "lower level" girls should be off limits.
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01-06-2017, 02:03 PM
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RE: Develop Maximum Sexual Irresistibility 5.5G discussion thread
(01-06-2017 02:00 PM)maxx55 Wrote:  
(01-06-2017 12:05 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote:  
(01-06-2017 01:12 AM)Shannon Wrote:  
(01-05-2017 04:35 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote:  
(01-05-2017 03:34 PM)Shannon Wrote:  Same thing is true for women. That you get results within terms of women is who is vibing on your frequency.

This is interesting Shannon.

Is there a way to get DMSI to tune us to specific women we want or get them to tune to us?

What do you suppose it's doing, hmmm? Of course I have to keep it at a subconscious level, because you guys will screw yourselves if I made that full conscious control. But there is partial conscious control.

Hmm, I'm not understanding you. I get that consciously sniping/influencing women could be bad if used the wrong way. But is there at least a way that DMSI can help us get the woman we want with SATT?

Also, what if we want different women that are both very different in personality, life circumstances, etc. Can we still get them both/all?

EDIT: Oh and also, what if like in Ben's case we get higher value than the woman, and aren't vibing anymore. Can DMSI still get her?

EDIT 2: In regards to different types of women, what I mean is, could I, say, be having sex with a single mother who works as a waitress and a high-level female CEO who has her life in order? And could this be done at the same time (i.e. for the same months/years I'm sleeping with both)? Will DMSI allow us to adjust (or get the women to adjust) so that we can deal with them on an individual basis?

This is a good point Sarge. If you're level 10, but you're attracted to a girl that's an 8 and of course you're attracted to a 10, you shouldn't have a problem with either. The unpopular would always do whatever to be in the popular crowd. The popular have no problem being in the crowd. Regardless, the popular have access to any crowd they choose. The same principle should be applied for DMSI. No "lower level" girls should be off limits.


I agree, and if that's not in DMSI, it should be in the next version. Smile

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01-06-2017, 10:49 PM
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RE: Develop Maximum Sexual Irresistibility 5.5G discussion thread
(01-06-2017 02:00 PM)maxx55 Wrote:  
(01-06-2017 12:05 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote:  
(01-06-2017 01:12 AM)Shannon Wrote:  
(01-05-2017 04:35 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote:  
(01-05-2017 03:34 PM)Shannon Wrote:  Same thing is true for women. That you get results within terms of women is who is vibing on your frequency.

This is interesting Shannon.

Is there a way to get DMSI to tune us to specific women we want or get them to tune to us?

What do you suppose it's doing, hmmm? Of course I have to keep it at a subconscious level, because you guys will screw yourselves if I made that full conscious control. But there is partial conscious control.

Hmm, I'm not understanding you. I get that consciously sniping/influencing women could be bad if used the wrong way. But is there at least a way that DMSI can help us get the woman we want with SATT?

Also, what if we want different women that are both very different in personality, life circumstances, etc. Can we still get them both/all?

EDIT: Oh and also, what if like in Ben's case we get higher value than the woman, and aren't vibing anymore. Can DMSI still get her?

EDIT 2: In regards to different types of women, what I mean is, could I, say, be having sex with a single mother who works as a waitress and a high-level female CEO who has her life in order? And could this be done at the same time (i.e. for the same months/years I'm sleeping with both)? Will DMSI allow us to adjust (or get the women to adjust) so that we can deal with them on an individual basis?

This is a good point Sarge. If you're level 10, but you're attracted to a girl that's an 8 and of course you're attracted to a 10, you shouldn't have a problem with either. The unpopular would always do whatever to be in the popular crowd. The popular have no problem being in the crowd. Regardless, the popular have access to any crowd they choose. The same principle should be applied for DMSI. No "lower level" girls should be off limits.

You can have the lower level girls you just have to "give" them a little more comfort, do things that lower your status like complimenting so they feel secure and deserving enough to have you. For me whenever I played a lead role in a musical, I could always get away with fully complimenting chorus girls, and essentially running "beta" game because my perceived status was higher than theirs.

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01-06-2017, 11:10 PM
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RE: Develop Maximum Sexual Irresistibility 5.5G discussion thread
(01-06-2017 10:49 PM)robstar Wrote:  
(01-06-2017 02:00 PM)maxx55 Wrote:  
(01-06-2017 12:05 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote:  
(01-06-2017 01:12 AM)Shannon Wrote:  
(01-05-2017 04:35 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote:  This is interesting Shannon.

Is there a way to get DMSI to tune us to specific women we want or get them to tune to us?

What do you suppose it's doing, hmmm? Of course I have to keep it at a subconscious level, because you guys will screw yourselves if I made that full conscious control. But there is partial conscious control.

Hmm, I'm not understanding you. I get that consciously sniping/influencing women could be bad if used the wrong way. But is there at least a way that DMSI can help us get the woman we want with SATT?

Also, what if we want different women that are both very different in personality, life circumstances, etc. Can we still get them both/all?

EDIT: Oh and also, what if like in Ben's case we get higher value than the woman, and aren't vibing anymore. Can DMSI still get her?

EDIT 2: In regards to different types of women, what I mean is, could I, say, be having sex with a single mother who works as a waitress and a high-level female CEO who has her life in order? And could this be done at the same time (i.e. for the same months/years I'm sleeping with both)? Will DMSI allow us to adjust (or get the women to adjust) so that we can deal with them on an individual basis?

This is a good point Sarge. If you're level 10, but you're attracted to a girl that's an 8 and of course you're attracted to a 10, you shouldn't have a problem with either. The unpopular would always do whatever to be in the popular crowd. The popular have no problem being in the crowd. Regardless, the popular have access to any crowd they choose. The same principle should be applied for DMSI. No "lower level" girls should be off limits.

You can have the lower level girls you just have to "give" them a little more comfort, do things that lower your status like complimenting so they feel secure and deserving enough to have you. For me whenever I played a lead role in a musical, I could always get away with fully complimenting chorus girls, and essentially running "beta" game because my perceived status was higher than theirs.

I assume by "beta game" you mean basic socializing? How to Win Friends and Influence People tactics? If so, then that must be why it's working for me so well. My status is too high.

If that's not what you mean, however, what do you mean then?

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01-07-2017, 03:26 AM (This post was last modified: 01-07-2017 03:30 AM by robstar.)
Post: #1691
RE: Develop Maximum Sexual Irresistibility 5.5G discussion thread
(01-06-2017 11:10 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote:  
(01-06-2017 10:49 PM)robstar Wrote:  
(01-06-2017 02:00 PM)maxx55 Wrote:  
(01-06-2017 12:05 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote:  
(01-06-2017 01:12 AM)Shannon Wrote:  What do you suppose it's doing, hmmm? Of course I have to keep it at a subconscious level, because you guys will screw yourselves if I made that full conscious control. But there is partial conscious control.

Hmm, I'm not understanding you. I get that consciously sniping/influencing women could be bad if used the wrong way. But is there at least a way that DMSI can help us get the woman we want with SATT?

Also, what if we want different women that are both very different in personality, life circumstances, etc. Can we still get them both/all?

EDIT: Oh and also, what if like in Ben's case we get higher value than the woman, and aren't vibing anymore. Can DMSI still get her?

EDIT 2: In regards to different types of women, what I mean is, could I, say, be having sex with a single mother who works as a waitress and a high-level female CEO who has her life in order? And could this be done at the same time (i.e. for the same months/years I'm sleeping with both)? Will DMSI allow us to adjust (or get the women to adjust) so that we can deal with them on an individual basis?

This is a good point Sarge. If you're level 10, but you're attracted to a girl that's an 8 and of course you're attracted to a 10, you shouldn't have a problem with either. The unpopular would always do whatever to be in the popular crowd. The popular have no problem being in the crowd. Regardless, the popular have access to any crowd they choose. The same principle should be applied for DMSI. No "lower level" girls should be off limits.

You can have the lower level girls you just have to "give" them a little more comfort, do things that lower your status like complimenting so they feel secure and deserving enough to have you. For me whenever I played a lead role in a musical, I could always get away with fully complimenting chorus girls, and essentially running "beta" game because my perceived status was higher than theirs.

I assume by "beta game" you mean basic socializing? How to Win Friends and Influence People tactics? If so, then that must be why it's working for me so well. My status is too high.

If that's not what you mean, however, what do you mean then?

It's unlikely that your status is TOO high. High status is given by being the leader of a group or having some form of celebrity, generally anything that involves a girl knowing you are liked by other people can raise your status in their eyes. If you were the CEO of your sales company for example and people knew that, you would have high status. However thinking highly of yourself can produce behavior and body language that increases your perceived status to people who don't know you, as can the way you dress. Dmsi itself is designed to increase your perceived status by body language and aura. By beta game I mean stuff like complimenting, not talking too loudly, agreeing with most things someone is saying etc. But I don't think it's something to consider unless you're the leader of a group, or have some celebrity status.
This is why guys who are extremely social tend to get a lot of poon, if for example your at a club bouncing around talking to everyone girls who see you are gonna assume your somebody important, or at least that you're well liked by people in general.

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01-07-2017, 06:40 AM
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(01-06-2017 10:49 PM)robstar Wrote:  You can have the lower level girls you just have to "give" them a little more comfort, do things that lower your status like complimenting so they feel secure and deserving enough to have you. For me whenever I played a lead role in a musical, I could always get away with fully complimenting chorus girls, and essentially running "beta" game because my perceived status was higher than theirs.

I'd like to point out that if you're high status, complimenting the woman you're interested in raises her status rather than lowers yours (done properly).

Acting needy and desperate is a low-status ploy, so doing it in that way would lower your status.

High status men get their pick of women, no matter their status. If they don't see what you see in them, show them/tell them what you see and enlighten them.
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01-07-2017, 10:11 AM
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(01-07-2017 06:40 AM)RTBoss Wrote:  I'd like to point out that if you're high status, complimenting the woman you're interested in raises her status rather than lowers yours (done properly).

Acting needy and desperate is a low-status ploy, so doing it in that way would lower your status.

High status men get their pick of women, no matter their status. If they don't see what you see in them, show them/tell them what you see and enlighten them.

To be honest this is kind of my stance as well. It makes little to no sense that getting more status would make a woman not like you.

I don't get why you'd need to tell women what you see in them though... Confused

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(01-07-2017 10:11 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote:  [quote='RTBoss' pid='151515' dateline='1483800030']

I don't get why you'd need to tell women what you see in them though... Confused

Women are human beings. Does it feel good when someone compliments you, Sarge, or pats you on the back with an "Atta boy?" Your response in your journal when people lift you up would denote, "Yes," from my observations. Women like that, too, and it enhances feelings of affinity.
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01-07-2017, 05:10 PM
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(01-07-2017 04:55 PM)RTBoss Wrote:  
(01-07-2017 10:11 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote:  [quote='RTBoss' pid='151515' dateline='1483800030']

I don't get why you'd need to tell women what you see in them though... Confused

Women are human beings. Does it feel good when someone compliments you, Sarge, or pats you on the back with an "Atta boy?" Your response in your journal when people lift you up would denote, "Yes," from my observations. Women like that, too, and it enhances feelings of affinity.

Well when you put it that way. It's just, I've done this and not everyone likes it. I dunno why.

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01-07-2017, 06:01 PM
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(01-07-2017 05:10 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote:  
(01-07-2017 04:55 PM)RTBoss Wrote:  
(01-07-2017 10:11 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote:  [quote='RTBoss' pid='151515' dateline='1483800030']

I don't get why you'd need to tell women what you see in them though... Confused

Women are human beings. Does it feel good when someone compliments you, Sarge, or pats you on the back with an "Atta boy?" Your response in your journal when people lift you up would denote, "Yes," from my observations. Women like that, too, and it enhances feelings of affinity.

Well when you put it that way. It's just, I've done this and not everyone likes it. I dunno why.

I don't know what it sounded like when you did it, as I wasn't there. Wink But as long as what you say is honest and heart-felt, I'm sure it went fine. Those people who can't accept a heart-felt compliment could possibly be more damaged than you'd wanna deal with. Or, you just keep at it. They'll come around when they realize you mean it. Some people might think you're just full of shit, and blow you off. Don't take it personally. Anyway, having this skill will be more important in an actual relationship, if you choose to partake in one (or many).
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(01-07-2017 06:01 PM)RTBoss Wrote:  
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(01-07-2017 04:55 PM)RTBoss Wrote:  
(01-07-2017 10:11 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote:  [quote='RTBoss' pid='151515' dateline='1483800030']

I don't get why you'd need to tell women what you see in them though... Confused

Women are human beings. Does it feel good when someone compliments you, Sarge, or pats you on the back with an "Atta boy?" Your response in your journal when people lift you up would denote, "Yes," from my observations. Women like that, too, and it enhances feelings of affinity.

Well when you put it that way. It's just, I've done this and not everyone likes it. I dunno why.

I don't know what it sounded like when you did it, as I wasn't there. Wink But as long as what you say is honest and heart-felt, I'm sure it went fine. Those people who can't accept a heart-felt compliment could possibly be more damaged than you'd wanna deal with. Or, you just keep at it. They'll come around when they realize you mean it. Some people might think you're just full of shit, and blow you off. Don't take it personally. Anyway, having this skill will be more important in an actual relationship, if you choose to partake in one (or many).

Well, it may not have been heart-felt. I guess that could be the problem. It was more of a "yeah, you're awesome because of xyz".

But yeah, I definitely want relationships. I know I need to know a lot and learn to do 1:1 reciprocation and all that but that's my goal.

Believe it or not, you're one of my role models in that regard. Shy

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01-07-2017, 06:35 PM (This post was last modified: 01-07-2017 06:35 PM by RTBoss.)
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(01-07-2017 06:15 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote:  Believe it or not, you're one of my role models in that regard. Shy

Thanks, man, I appreciate that. Smile

Relationships, and certainly mine, aren't all roses - but with the right person (or persons, lol), they're worth it. It adds a depth/dimension to life and personal growth that may be hard to accomplish in another manner. Of course, having subliminals the quality of Shannon's also gives us opportunities for growth we wouldn't have been able to have otherwise.
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01-07-2017, 06:45 PM (This post was last modified: 01-07-2017 06:53 PM by bits.)
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RE: Develop Maximum Sexual Irresistibility 5.5G discussion thread
(01-07-2017 10:11 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote:  I don't get why you'd need to tell women what you see in them though... Confused

Well its no secret that women are complex but to simplify it they have 2 modes of attraction:

1) quick attraction - sex appeal, wealth, social status, charisma, confidence, dominance, etc...

2) deep attraction - emotional connection, comfort, safety, understanding, acceptance, etc

The problem for women is that each one of those filters out the other, this is why women can say "there are no good men" even though they seem to have more options available than ever or why they'll be dating a good looking hedge fund manager one month and then dump him and run back to their broke and overweight ex-boyfriend from high school.

You can be 20/10 on #1 but if you're 0/10 on #2 it's not going to go fore more than a 10 minute conversation or with a very small subset of girls who only care about #1

But if you're 0/10 #1 and 20/10 on #2 then she won't even think you have a penis.

Most women try to find a guy whos more balanced and maybe a 6/10 on both over a guy who is 8/10 on #1 but 3/10 on #2. Even in party city like Vegas or Prague where girls are already in a "1 night stand hookup" mood and trying to dress as sexy as possible you can see lots of good looking guys trying to escalate on girls right off the bat and the girls probably enjoy it but those guys will have to approach 10-20 women before they get an instant pull or bathroom pull.

The guys in those cities who have the easiest pulls and have the most abundance are the ones who can make girls laugh, show them a good time, while spiking in a little bit of #1 here and there.

You can also see this very easily with pheromones, guys hear about them and immediately go for something super sexual like primal instinct or NPA - 100% pure sexual and will make any woman within 5-10 ft of you super horny and wet - but the only guys who get laid from those types of pheromones without mixing them are guys who are already in a relationship and have established emotional connection. The guys who use something 100% social (which allows for rapid emotional connection but no hornyness/wetness) have a much higher success rate with hookups. Luckily pheromone companies saw this quickly and all of the most effective mixes are 50-60% sexual and 50% - 40% social.

The reason for telling a woman what you see in them is because it helps establish #2 and the more attractive a woman is, the more of a emotional connection she will want. All her life she's heard that she's hot/cute/sexy but all of those guys will be a blur in her mind and she won't even remember their faces. But ask her about the guys who she felt "understood her" and she'll remember their name, face, where they met, where their first date was, and yes, what his bedroom looked like Wink Sadly for most women, even the super hot ones, they'll only go through their lives meeting 1 or 2 such guys who they feel really gets and understands them.

Luckily for us men we don't have to be a 10/10 on emotional connection because we tend to be terrible at it and women lower their expectations, but a simple "i like how you do x" or "my favorite thing about you x_personality_characteristic" means a lot to women.
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01-07-2017, 07:19 PM (This post was last modified: 01-07-2017 07:21 PM by SargeMaximus.)
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(01-07-2017 06:35 PM)RTBoss Wrote:  
(01-07-2017 06:15 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote:  Believe it or not, you're one of my role models in that regard. Shy

Thanks, man, I appreciate that. Smile

Relationships, and certainly mine, aren't all roses - but with the right person (or persons, lol), they're worth it. It adds a depth/dimension to life and personal growth that may be hard to accomplish in another manner. Of course, having subliminals the quality of Shannon's also gives us opportunities for growth we wouldn't have been able to have otherwise.

You're welcome. Smile

I still don't get how you manage relationships so well. Or how you have them to begin with. Is it all the 1:1 reciprocal thing? What if people don't reciprocate? seems like I'm always the one to have to blow new life into things, not always, but mostly.

EDIT: Bits, looks like you posted as I was writing. I'll have to get back to that post as I'm also playing Battlefront right now lol.

But it looks like an awesome post, thanks! Smile

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