(07-11-2016, 10:04 AM)Shannon Wrote: I think it's true for most women, that encountering a virgin is a rare and special opportunity just like it is for a man. In fact, some guys use it as a pickup technique, telling girls they're a virgin, which is why women get upset sometimes if they think you're too suave or skilled to be a virgin.

(07-11-2016, 09:33 AM)Shannon Wrote: Significantly improved the ACSMA module. Added to APSX module.

Re-tag complete. Time for lunch.

(07-11-2016, 10:35 AM)Mr. Anderson Wrote:

(07-11-2016, 09:33 AM)Shannon Wrote: Significantly improved the ACSMA module. Added to APSX module.

Re-tag complete. Time for lunch.

Sometimes I wonder how you can remember all the abbreviations

(07-11-2016, 09:54 AM)kenpachi Wrote: I remember one time alcohol over powered my fear of girls laughing at my inexperience in bed. It was a night out and we went to an after party. I was talking to a girl and the alcohol courage caused me to start rubbing up her thighs. She grabbed my hand and led me to her bedroom before i knew what was happening. I fingered and went down on her because i knew i was too drunk to get hard. I told her i was a virgin before and i remember when eating/fingering she panted "theres... No... Way... You... Can... Be... That... Good... At... That" and called me a "natural".

She wanted to **** the next morning but alcohol wore off and fear kicked back in. My inexperience and penis size insecurity kicked in and i left. I remember her complaining "but i wanted to take your virginity", she was literally crying in frustration when i left.

Point being, being a virgin wont stop you getting laid. Only your own self sabotage will.

Now its time to follow my own advice. Or for shannon to build that pe 6g sub

(07-11-2016, 08:34 AM)Shannon Wrote: According to the sources I take seriously, there is only one "The One", and there can be any number of the rest. I have encountered a relatively large number of mirror souls in my life already.

(07-11-2016, 09:16 AM)dissonance Wrote:

(07-11-2016, 07:51 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote:

(07-11-2016, 07:42 AM)Shannon Wrote: I'm not using scare tactics. I'm telling you what I wish someone had told me when I was in your shoes. And what I wish Dave and Shawn and all the rest had listened to when I tried to help them. I don't need to help you, you're welcome to all the suffering you want. I just don't like seeing people suffer needlessly.

You do what you think works. But your level of understanding is making things seem to be different than they actually are.

You won't believe me for a long time, if you follow in the footsteps of Dave and Shawn. And that's exactly what you're doing, but hey. Some people need to learn the hard way.

Why don't women like me when I'm calm and content then? If that works, sign me up. I just haven't seen it. What should I look for?

I'm serious. I don't want to be angry (it's not my default) so the less energy I have to spend the better. But why is it the only thing that works?

You can be non-angry and hateful but still enthusiastic and energetic and fun etc...no?

(07-11-2016, 10:56 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote:

(07-11-2016, 09:16 AM)dissonance Wrote:

(07-11-2016, 07:51 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote:

(07-11-2016, 07:42 AM)Shannon Wrote: I'm not using scare tactics. I'm telling you what I wish someone had told me when I was in your shoes. And what I wish Dave and Shawn and all the rest had listened to when I tried to help them. I don't need to help you, you're welcome to all the suffering you want. I just don't like seeing people suffer needlessly.

You do what you think works. But your level of understanding is making things seem to be different than they actually are.

You won't believe me for a long time, if you follow in the footsteps of Dave and Shawn. And that's exactly what you're doing, but hey. Some people need to learn the hard way.

but Sarge by now even if we assume that aggressiveness hatred and

Why don't women like me when I'm calm and content then? If that works, sign me up. I just haven't seen it. What should I look for?

I'm serious. I don't want to be angry (it's not my default) so the less energy I have to spend the better. But why is it the only thing that works?

You can be non-angry and hateful but still enthusiastic and energetic and fun etc...no?

Of course I can. I'm like this quite often but I'm sure I've said more than once that people don't like me when I'm like that. Also, with women, it doesn't seem to change anything. The only thing that creates the attraction is either anger, hate, or spitefulness.

(07-11-2016, 11:24 AM)Light Wrote:

(07-11-2016, 10:56 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote:

(07-11-2016, 09:16 AM)dissonance Wrote: You can be non-angry and hateful but still enthusiastic and energetic and fun etc...no?

Of course I can. I'm like this quite often but I'm sure I've said more than once that people don't like me when I'm like that. Also, with women, it doesn't seem to change anything. The only thing that creates the attraction is either anger, hate, or spitefulness.

But if you come to think about it the aggressive hate bad ass approach has not led you also "to sucess". And i guess yiu have been trying for sometime now. I have this feeling you should keep yourself open to all possibilities. Take the toolkit approach: the what works approach. Try different stuff and go your way. Do not complicate things for yourself. A good way to start is not to go into endless discussions about things that sometimes do not deserve your effort. How about writing about the sub and what it does or does not do for you. I do not get that in your journal at all!!!

(07-11-2016, 10:56 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote: Of course I can. I'm like this quite often but I'm sure I've said more than once that people don't like me when I'm like that. Also, with women, it doesn't seem to change anything. The only thing that creates the attraction is either anger, hate, or spitefulness.

(07-11-2016, 11:52 AM)ALI6NMENT Wrote: So Shannon, With this MSI, especially the new one coming, I know you mention about attracting them no matter what we are doing, wearing etc etc

How far does this go...

Can I stop getting my haircut, working out, trimming my beard, going on sunbeds, buying nice clothes etc etc ?

There is apart me that does all this just because I think I am more attractive when I do them. But to be honest I dont want to care no more, I don't want to do things to be more attractive to attract women, as I know there are guys out there that don't trim beard, don't workout, have long hair etc etc and still get hot girls.

So me doing these things are making me be someone I am not to get someone that is not attracted to me but an image I have created pretending to be me.

I just want to stop trying to be someone I don't want to be, just let go and attract women that like me for me.

If not, I don't care no more. I would rather be me, the genuine me and attract a girl that likes me for my real self, then pretend to be someone I am not and attract a girl that likes me for this false me.

I feel like just being like **** you, take it or leave it, this is the real me.

I just feel like I am living a lie for women. And I dont want that no more. If it stops me attracting women, I don't care because these women I attract like that are not with me for my genuine self.

And there's always someone better in every single thing ln life you can think of, so why even be sucked into all the BS of competing or trying to stay "on top"

It just makes me so tired now of all this BS and I don't want to be apart of it.

If someone says you have to function in society this way. I say ***** you, why should I?

To be honest if a girl don't like me because I don't have muscles or my hair is not clean cut, or my beard looks messy or my clothes are not in fashion etc etc

I say go duck yourself bit/ch, I ain't being sucked into all that social media, Celebrity BS.

I don't want them fake girls anyway, I like the girls that can see past all this BS.

Girls that can wonder about deeper questions in life....like staring up at starz at night and wondering what is all this human life experience all about?

Not worrying about where to get her nails done or smashing her face in a cake of makeup or watching some stupid TV program like the kardashians, or pouting taking selfies, or taking a picture of her ass in the mirror to put on social media to get validation because "that is how the world is"

OK I am rambling, you get my point.

Quote:How far does this go...

Can I stop getting my haircut, working out, trimming my beard, going on sunbeds, buying nice clothes etc etc ?