(07-11-2016, 07:09 AM)Dilettante Wrote: Shannon is right. I was very angry when I was young and I've since mellowed with age becuz I realize it was pointless, draining and exhausting. i was not productive career wise becuz I focus on the anger rather than the solution to my problems. this made me missed an opportunity to be wealthy, happy, and ina great relationship in my 20s. even today I still have to find reminding myself that anger is like a poison that I take expecting my enemy to die.

(07-11-2016, 08:24 AM)THolt Wrote: Hey Shannon, this is changing the topic but I wanted to ask you something regarding 6G.
You said a while back that you haven't been able to define what 6G is

Have you gotten closer to being able to define 6G?

I myself can't wrap my head around it with all the new technologies that are coming out.
I put truly will be the next step in self development

(07-11-2016, 08:27 AM)chaosvrgn Wrote:

(07-11-2016, 07:09 AM)Dilettante Wrote: Shannon is right. I was very angry when I was young and I've since mellowed with age becuz I realize it was pointless, draining and exhausting. i was not productive career wise becuz I focus on the anger rather than the solution to my problems. this made me missed an opportunity to be wealthy, happy, and ina great relationship in my 20s. even today I still have to find reminding myself that anger is like a poison that I take expecting my enemy to die.

Same. I was literally just talking to someone about this. I don't really believe in soulmates. Not that you can't have a "soulmate" bond with someone -- but that there's only one soulmate for you.

But if soulmates exist, this woman I hung out with in 2014 was it. We had a connection that I've never experienced before, EVER and have never experienced since then.

She even told my best friend that she was, but I was so consumed with rage, anger and fear that I kept pushing her away, never letting her get close. To this day, she still tells our mutual friends how she misses our bond, but for logistical reasons, it'd be hard to pursue anything with her.

I don't want to say that I missed my chance, because I could rekindle something with her and I'm attempting to do so... but I might've missed my chance.

After the incident that happened the other night (which spread into my real life), I vowed to let go of this anger. Trust me, my entire life -- from childhood to now -- has been shaped and molded by pain and hatred and rage. Every decision I've made (from martial arts, to what I studied in school) was shaped by this anger to "get back at the world."

It's not working for me. Never did. I want more. Just the other day, I was meditating and began mourning for the person I was once upon a time. When I was a child, I had aspirations of become that "wise alpha," because I felt that I had a very strong connection with the universe. And then, I let that anger twist me into something else, something perverted, where I used that "connection" with the universe to manipulate and harm others.

It's time to let it go, walk a new path. If I can do it, I know others can.

(07-11-2016, 06:20 AM)Shannon Wrote:

(07-11-2016, 05:59 AM)dissonance Wrote:

(07-11-2016, 05:52 AM)Shannon Wrote:

(07-11-2016, 05:47 AM)dissonance Wrote:

(07-10-2016, 11:54 PM)Shannon Wrote: I think it would be best if you waited until I do create version 3 before you use it not only for the extra time on E2 but because I'm going to try to make version 3 deals specifically with the sort of reasons why you and guys like you have trouble with women and of course the same thing for women with guys. I think version 3 would be much more effective for you for that reason. I don't know how many months away it's going to be that will depend on how long it takes me to do the other stuff in the meantime and build it of course but I think that's the wisest course of action for you.

Is the reason being inexperience/virginity letting it bring down confidence or something related to that? If so, i look forward to this module.

In CatMan case, he has some blocks because if anger toward women. This should help with that.

Sarge is apparentlydoomed to suffer the limits of his faulty beliefs instead.

Ah ok, by the way I edited my post with some new questions if you have the time

Which post?

(07-11-2016, 05:52 AM)Shannon Wrote: Sarge is apparently doomed to suffer the limits of his faulty beliefs instead.

(07-11-2016, 08:43 AM)dissonance Wrote:

(07-11-2016, 06:20 AM)Shannon Wrote:

(07-11-2016, 05:59 AM)dissonance Wrote:

(07-11-2016, 05:52 AM)Shannon Wrote:

(07-11-2016, 05:47 AM)dissonance Wrote: Is the reason being inexperience/virginity letting it bring down confidence or something related to that? If so, i look forward to this module.

In CatMan case, he has some blocks because if anger toward women. This should help with that.

Sarge is apparentlydoomed to suffer the limits of his faulty beliefs instead.

Ah ok, by the way I edited my post with some new questions if you have the time

Which post?

I'll just copy paste:

"Is the reason being inexperience/virginity letting it bring down confidence and/or somehow self-sabotaging action taking? or something related to that? If so, i look forward to this module.

I have this subconscious OCD fear of like what if I'm all sexy and really attractive to this girl, then we get to the bedroom, and I say to her "hey, i've never done this before", what would she think? Or if I don't tell her I'm a virgin, and I end up being shitty in bed or really nervous, and she's like wtf is wrong with this guy he sucks in bed, even though I know I'd be at least decent in bed the first time (I do my "research" lol).

By the way, what would be the most effective at removing these subconscious fears and blocks, caring what other people think, that I just mentioned? AM6? OGSF? or would V2.3 be more effective since it's 5.5G?

And what do you guys think? Is it better to let a girl know I'm a virgin before the sex or no?"

(07-11-2016, 08:51 AM)Shannon Wrote: What she didn't understand was that when a virgin is wearing an extra strong (read: extra thick) condom, and is terrified of not being good enough, a virgin can sometimes **** forever without any trouble doing so.

(07-11-2016, 07:51 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote:

(07-11-2016, 07:42 AM)Shannon Wrote: I'm not using scare tactics. I'm telling you what I wish someone had told me when I was in your shoes. And what I wish Dave and Shawn and all the rest had listened to when I tried to help them. I don't need to help you, you're welcome to all the suffering you want. I just don't like seeing people suffer needlessly.

You do what you think works. But your level of understanding is making things seem to be different than they actually are.

You won't believe me for a long time, if you follow in the footsteps of Dave and Shawn. And that's exactly what you're doing, but hey. Some people need to learn the hard way.

Why don't women like me when I'm calm and content then? If that works, sign me up. I just haven't seen it. What should I look for?

I'm serious. I don't want to be angry (it's not my default) so the less energy I have to spend the better. But why is it the only thing that works?

(07-11-2016, 09:11 AM)rayrocanaldo Wrote: But Shannon I'll ask again,

Aside from " HuMan Aura ", is there another form of energy that we turn sexy ? Dont tell me the chemical, electrical, electromagnetic, thermal because that was a joke.

(07-11-2016, 08:51 AM)Shannon Wrote:

(07-11-2016, 08:43 AM)dissonance Wrote:

(07-11-2016, 06:20 AM)Shannon Wrote:

(07-11-2016, 05:59 AM)dissonance Wrote:

(07-11-2016, 05:52 AM)Shannon Wrote: In CatMan case, he has some blocks because if anger toward women. This should help with that.

Sarge is apparentlydoomed to suffer the limits of his faulty beliefs instead.

Ah ok, by the way I edited my post with some new questions if you have the time

Which post?

I'll just copy paste:

"Is the reason being inexperience/virginity letting it bring down confidence and/or somehow self-sabotaging action taking? or something related to that? If so, i look forward to this module.

I have this subconscious OCD fear of like what if I'm all sexy and really attractive to this girl, then we get to the bedroom, and I say to her "hey, i've never done this before", what would she think? Or if I don't tell her I'm a virgin, and I end up being shitty in bed or really nervous, and she's like wtf is wrong with this guy he sucks in bed, even though I know I'd be at least decent in bed the first time (I do my "research" lol).

By the way, what would be the most effective at removing these subconscious fears and blocks, caring what other people think, that I just mentioned? AM6? OGSF? or would V2.3 be more effective since it's 5.5G?

And what do you guys think? Is it better to let a girl know I'm a virgin before the sex or no?"

My first time was at age 20, because I was so terrified of being laughed at that I wouldn't dare let any female know I was a virgin or that I was interested in having sex with them. I overheard the girls at my highschool talking about "how stupid guys were" for not knowing how to put on a condom, etc.

When I tried to trust someone for my first time, we both being virgins, did not get very far. Neither one of us understood how to do anything, and so she was dry as a bone and I had no idea that we needed lube or foreplay to change that. She ended up turning on me at school and telling everyone I was a lousy lover, even though we never got to actual penetration.

When I lost my virginity, it was because a woman I met (friend of a friend) actually led me through all of it. And when we had finished having sex for the first time, and I told her she had just taken my virginity, she literally slapped me so hard I fell off my bed.

I asked her why the hell she did that, and she said, "Don't you ever lie to me again. There is no way a virgin fucks like that."

What she didn't understand was that when a virgin is wearing an extra strong (read: extra thick) condom, and is terrified of not being good enough, a virgin can sometimes **** forever without any trouble doing so.

Long story short, if I had just told someone I liked and wanted to have sex with that I liked them and that I wanted to give them my virginity, things would have been a lot easier, and I wouldn't have had to wait to 20.

Women are usually attracted by virgins. Just tell her you're a virgin and you don't know what you're doing yet in some things, and ask her to teach you how to have sex in a way that pleases a woman.

The best sub for overcoming this would be E2. DMSI 2.2 would be second, probably, since it's OGSF module is aimed specifically at achieving sex.