(10-16-2021, 05:17 AM)lano1106 Wrote: You have to actually take the courage to do it few times to realize that those fears that are stopping you to be that way are irrationals and invalid.

(10-16-2021, 05:17 AM)lano1106 Wrote: but it is of a disarming simplicity. It boils down to adopt a honesty policy and when you are actually doing it, you find out that it makes you stand out of the crowd and women actually appreciate it.

What makes it hard to do is fears. Fear of what the other is going to think. Fear of rejection and so on...

You have to actually take the courage to do it few times to realize that those fears that are stopping you to be that way are irrationals and invalid.

(10-16-2021, 12:22 PM)Ampersnd Wrote: I could only imagine the woman's perspective, where a man comes up to her in unusual circumstances and says "I'm thinking of my cock sliding between your ass checks" (which is basically the language used in the book), and she feels a pressure to placate or to not reject outright for fear of reprisal. To her, if the man is already unhinged enough to break five social conventions, what else is he capable of doing?

(10-16-2021, 01:11 PM)tolgaocal80 Wrote: this may not be relevant to what you say, I think when he says "honesty" he means(ARC), speaking what is in your mind straightforward without buying her with dates, paying for food etc, everything you do to get liked by her, is simply being manipulative and needy.
It really is, we conditioned by society that we think we as men, have to make her love ourselves with being kind, generous, pay for food receipt...
But don't you think all of these are just trying to hard? When we talk about alpha males, I don't think an alpha male would strive to get in her pants, he would his move and show his interest to her "only sexually" because what you would want from a woman you approach somewhere? Simple, sex.  


MODE ONE behavior is a part of alpha male package for me,

(10-16-2021, 12:22 PM)Ampersnd Wrote: I could only imagine the woman's perspective, where a man comes up to her in unusual circumstances and says "I'm thinking of my cock sliding between your ass checks" (which is basically the language used in the book), and she feels a pressure to placate or to not reject outright for fear of reprisal. To her, if the man is already unhinged enough to break five social conventions, what else is he capable of doing?

LOL, I guess I wouldn't say something like that to someone I don't know anything about her, but you know everybody know some girl who will respond very positive to this even at first meeting, but body language and tonality of your voice is also must support what you say.

I watched a few videos of ARC, he was categorizing MODE 1 versions like 1.5, HARDCORE,
1.5 is something like I choose to use, "I want to let you know that I think you looking sexy, cutie, fine... attractive and  what about  hanging out as man and woman ?", HARDCORE mode is not for me at least most of the situations and for now.

someone is asking if is it okey to talk like that in your social circle, here:
https://youtu.be/BtGqJwaEX2E?t=3516

(10-16-2021, 05:44 PM)Ampersnd Wrote: Oh great, that's actually a massive clarification. Currie says that no sexually explicit language nor profanity is required to be in mode one. In that case, I feel comfortable signing off on this method as a legit one. Though, the book is a tad misleading about all of the ingredients, as both sexually explicit language and profanity are baked in it throughout.

(10-18-2021, 03:23 AM)MegaMan Wrote:

(10-16-2021, 05:44 PM)Ampersnd Wrote: Oh great, that's actually a massive clarification. Currie says that no sexually explicit language nor profanity is required to be in mode one. In that case, I feel comfortable signing off on this method as a legit one. Though, the book is a tad misleading about all of the ingredients, as both sexually explicit language and profanity are baked in it throughout.

I read the book (it's not that long lol) and in the last chapter he explains to start off with sth like " So … when would you like to share my company one-on-one … next Friday, or next Saturday?".
And from then on calibrate based on the responses and slowly escalate. Was very glad that it turned more real than straight-up starting with a dirty F-Bomb.