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SargeMaximus: I Feel It Coming, Part II [DMSI 3.1 A Invalid Tester]
09-17-2017, 10:54 AM
Post: #41
RE: SargeMaximus: I Feel It Coming, Part II [DMSI 3.1 A Invalid Tester]
(09-17-2017 10:28 AM)Adrien Silva Wrote:  
(09-15-2017 04:38 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote:  Lately been noticing people are super defensive towards me.

Here's a convo from OKC I had with a girl today to show you what I mean:

Today - 11:16am
Me: Hey [name], just thought I'd say hi!
Today - 4:42pm
Her: Your two photos are hilarious- what made you add the side shot in?
Me: Thanks. I wanted to practice my mug shots. So how's your day going?
Her: Omg it was so challenging!! How was your day?
Me: Mines good so far. Why challenging?
Today - 5:43pm
Her: I am a caseworker with Children's Services- so I'm hoping you can imagine why challenging
Today - 7:08pm
Me: Yeah, now I can. Must be tough. How do you separate work from your personal life?

I get nothing online.

Maybe your pics are bad...

This girl is actually still talking to me. She seemed to cool down after that outburst. We'll see if she makes the cut. Smile

ION, getting better at sales. Back to some things I forgot about and man are people paying attention to me now.

Still feels like work, though.

I intend to approach and talk to more girls from now on. getting into a "do or die" mentality HOWEVER I've noticed a problem with that:

If I only get this kind of results when I'm near broke and near homelessness, I can't forsee myself getting into a better position.

I'd like to have this same kind of motivation and effectiveness no matter how much money I make nor how many girls I get with.
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09-17-2017, 09:00 PM
Post: #42
RE: SargeMaximus: I Feel It Coming, Part II [DMSI 3.1 A Invalid Tester]
I'm getting hyper-aware of things now.

Just remembered a sales call today where the guy asked me if the van parked across the street was mine.

Me: "No."

Him: "Oh, cause I was gonna say it's pretty sweet."

Me: *looking at it* "Yeah, it is."

The thing is: It's probably his neighbors van. Like seriously, wtf? Why did he ask that?
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09-18-2017, 11:00 AM
Post: #43
RE: SargeMaximus: I Feel It Coming, Part II [DMSI 3.1 A Invalid Tester]
Everyone is busy these days.

Last year seemed like everyone wasn't busy. What does this mean?

Also, talked with a girl at a mall. She worked there and was helping me with my book.

I asked her if she'd read it, she said yes but it was long time ago. She then said t
"That's a nice cover"

And I said "thanks"

Lol, wtf? Yet another example of fing up a convo. ><
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09-18-2017, 01:23 PM (This post was last modified: 09-18-2017 01:56 PM by SargeMaximus.)
Post: #44
RE: SargeMaximus: I Feel It Coming, Part II [DMSI 3.1 A Invalid Tester]
Reading more about pick up. Some good stuff about how when girls giggle or joke it's usually in response to sexual tension and is a good sign.

I still don't believe it but I guess I'd better get on board.

Also, girls not wanting to be around you may indicate sexual tension is too high for her to handle.

DMSI aura, no doubt.

EDIT: Scratch that, girls not wanting to be around you is a strong IOD.
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09-18-2017, 04:21 PM (This post was last modified: 09-18-2017 04:22 PM by SargeMaximus.)
Post: #45
RE: SargeMaximus: I Feel It Coming, Part II [DMSI 3.1 A Invalid Tester]
Random thought today:

You gotta convince and persuade people without convincing or persuading them. :o

Also, seems that online girl fell through. And now all is silent after sending out a blitz of messages.

Weird.
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09-18-2017, 04:23 PM
Post: #46
RE: SargeMaximus: I Feel It Coming, Part II [DMSI 3.1 A Invalid Tester]
It's more like

"you can bring a horse to the water but you cant make them drink it. But you can tell them how Damm thirsty they are"

E2 Start Date: March 6th 2016
E2 End Date: November 1st 2017

UD Start Date: October 15 2017
UD End date: July 1st 2019



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09-18-2017, 04:26 PM
Post: #47
RE: SargeMaximus: I Feel It Coming, Part II [DMSI 3.1 A Invalid Tester]
(09-18-2017 04:23 PM)Daredevil Wrote:  It's more like

"you can bring a horse to the water but you cant make them drink it. But you can tell them how Damm thirsty they are"

Yeah well at this point I'm back to focusing on fundamentals so social calibration, stuff like that.
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09-18-2017, 08:43 PM (This post was last modified: 09-18-2017 10:55 PM by SargeMaximus.)
Post: #48
RE: SargeMaximus: I Feel It Coming, Part II [DMSI 3.1 A Invalid Tester]
Just got back from the gym. A few looks from girls but nothing extraordinary.

I miss the butt displays of yesterday (and by "yesterday" I mean: days past. Last one I had was a few days ago but it seems like an eternity Sad ). *tear*

Anyhow, other than that brother seems trying to bond with me more.

Wish I knew how to bond. Feel like I'm dropping every single ball he's throwing my way. :/

EDIT: And then after the gym, convo with the brother was much better. Lots of laughs from him, tho I think I'm starting to notice different kinds of laughter. I could always kinda tell between fake laughter and genuine, but maybe now I'm starting to know what each different kind means.

Not aware of what makes him laugh, but when in the flow of things it's easy.

I wonder if this is the NSFM modules. Obviously I'm not talking about seducing my brother! I just mean that it flows so well, and it reminded me of the first time I was like that with my hairdresser. Need more of this.

I'm starting to think 3.1 just isn't powerful enough. I get subtle clues about what works and what doesn't but it's so subtle and fleeting that it can't be relied on. Need more glaring, "can't-ignore-it", obvious distinctions between what works and what doesn't, and then we also need modules to help us lock in what works and stop doing what doesn't.

EDIT 2: A few more notables:

- People enjoy talking to me more. Several hands were shook today at the conclusion of convos.
- Brother seemed disappointed when i left for the gym, like he didn't want me to go so abruptly or something.
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09-19-2017, 08:17 AM
Post: #49
RE: SargeMaximus: I Feel It Coming, Part II [DMSI 3.1 A Invalid Tester]
VERY enlightening article about why too much masculinity leads to reduced attraction:

http://www.girlschase.com/content/lovers...men-or-men
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09-19-2017, 09:07 AM (This post was last modified: 09-19-2017 09:11 PM by SargeMaximus.)
Post: #50
RE: SargeMaximus: I Feel It Coming, Part II [DMSI 3.1 A Invalid Tester]
DMSI Notables (will update throughout the day):

- Gilf gave blatant crotch stare. I was too stunned to say anything. We were passing each other.
- Milf in a store I was at got sexy. acting all flirty. There were many other people in the place and she wasn't the one helping me (she was helping someone else) but she came over to talk to my cashier for a second. She smiled at everyone but I thought maybe it was me. No way to know for sure unfortunately.
- While walking along the sidewalk a petite but very curvy/tight woman is stocking the post boxes. She works for the post office.

There's her van to my left, her to my right, and just enough room between them for me to squeeze by.

I say "Woops! Look out!" she turns, looks at me, looks back into the post office and exclaims in a very cheerful voice "HI! How are YOU?!"

as i squeak past with my crotch facing her lovely butt and me staring at it I say "I;m good, how are you?"

she says "I'm good, thank you for asking!"

and I keep walking.

- From a journal on Pherotruth: "Women just needed to be around me and sex was how they could insure I would allow them the one on one time with me and guys thought everything went better when I was around like I was the office good luck charm."

THAT is what I'd like DMSI to accomplish.

EDIT:

- Just got back from the gym (11pm). Lots of hot girls around. Noticed a few semi-hovers or maybe they were just coiuncidentally using machines/exercises near me.

- One girl was doing leg curls next to me. I took note of her back how it moved with each movement of her leg as if she were riding cowgirl. As soon as that entered my mind, she whipped her head back, sending her hair flying as if she let out a scream in orgasm. But it was all silent.

- I'm studying "PIMP" by Julien again because I need to start interacting with girls. These small "hello's" and hi's aren't enough. Plus, all these girls near me in the gym and I can't even say anything. :/

- Another thing I've noticed ion the gym, girls will come near me and when I don't make a move, it almost always turns out they are there with some guy. I find that interesting. It's happened 3 times at least, 2 in the last 2 days. I know that's not a lot but it struck me as odd. I've never known girls who were working out with guys to stray far from them.
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Yesterday, 08:55 PM
Post: #51
RE: SargeMaximus: I Feel It Coming, Part II [DMSI 3.1 A Invalid Tester]
So, couple things to note.

Today I didn't work. It was my day off. Spent the time cleaning, going over Pick Up materials, and reading "How to be An Alpha Male".

Man, I'm doing EVERYTHING wrong, as usual lol.

I have it in e-book but I decided to buy it in paperback because I want to be able to highlight things, and skip to places quickly. It should arrive in a few weeks.

Anyhow, because of that book (and other things) I'm REALLY tempted to just say "F*ck it" WRT DMSI, and do AM 6 instead for a 5th run.

Not sure what else to do.

I've just been unable to get ANY traction in my life. everytime things are going good, something happens to f*ck everything up. Sometimes it's me, other times (like this year in sales with that new bylaw making it nearly impossible to pitch our product door to door) it's outside my control. And then I'm either back to square one or BELOW where I was before.

It's a seriously scary trend.

Near as I can tell the problem either lies in my social skills and inability to form lasting bonds, and/or being too much of a people pleaser nice guy. Which I never thought I was till reading that book.

Another thing: reading that book brings the contradictions into awareness like "don't do things for women, make them EARN it" and then on the next page it tells you how to dress to impress women. So f*ck.

Anyhow, the only thing keeping me on DMSI is the small glimpses of hope I keep seeing.

Just tonight my brother informed me that a movie from one of our favorite director's is out and so he's going to get us free movie passes cause he works at the theatre. I picked the time and he was down for it.

Things like that.

Also, my cousin phoned me the other day saying he may be returning to the city after living in another one for a few months.

Then there are the looks I'm getting from women, and stuff.

But it's all too little. Not useful in a grand-schema.

I know every little bit adds up but I'm nearing the end of my contract at work and I need to get some cash going.

This year has been an utter disappointment in that regard.

Again, mostly because of that new legislation, but also because, for whatever reason, my apps are not being sold. So no commission.

So yeah, some major negatives sprinkled with some nice positives but seriously, using subs should knock my life to the next level, not continue on a morphine drip.

Anyhow, despite all that, I feel quite calm, which also has me worried because if I don't fight for my spot, I may drop off altogether.

Or maybe that's the wrong way to look at things.

Who knows.

Anyhow, went to the gym today, noticed a few girls. One of them laughing at what a guy was saying to her. she left with him.

IOI's are either too normal i don't notice them anymore or they weren't there tonight.
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Today, 09:28 AM
Post: #52
RE: SargeMaximus: I Feel It Coming, Part II [DMSI 3.1 A Invalid Tester]
Did some errands this morning.

First I stopped at a gas station.

I've been there before and the girl always seemed to like me but today she was neutral faced, barely acknowledging me. When I said "Hi, how are you?" she didn't say anything, just maintained EC. She's not my type but the behavior change was of note to me. I came and went without a fuss.

Next I stopped by the office. Secretary also seemed a bit standoffish. I thought "huh, maybe it's me"

Went to pick up something for the office. The woman there was very bubbly not my type tho. We joked a bit, very playful. I left cordially.

Then I returned to the office to drop the thing off. Secretary was much more engaging and playful but then so was I (I had decided to be more engaging right before I entered the place where I had to pick up that item).

So that was good and as I left I said:

Me: Ok, well have a good day!

Secretary: Thanks Sarge, you too!

Me: Thank you.

Not bad I suppose.
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