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12-27-2017, 09:56 AM (This post was last modified: 12-27-2017 11:02 AM by Raykon.)
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12-27-2017, 03:50 PM (This post was last modified: 12-27-2017 06:56 PM by Benjamin.)
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Quote:If you're too old for snap chat then perhaps you could take a D pic with a regular camera, get a few dozen copies of it made at your local photo store and mail them out to all the girls you fancy.

Hahaha is that how it was done in the oldschool days?

I can't really be bothered with snap chat, to me it's dumb just sending random photos every message and such.
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12-27-2017, 05:35 PM
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(12-27-2017 03:50 PM)Benjamin Wrote:  Link up exercise motivation.

Quote:If you're too old for snap chat then perhaps you could take a D pic with a regular camera, get a few dozen copies of it made at your local photo store and mail them out to all the girls you fancy.

Hahaha is that how it was done in the oldschool days?

I can't really be bothered with snap chat, to me it's dumb just sending random photos every message and such.

they made it so u can chat without sending pictures.
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12-27-2017, 06:57 PM
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Hahaha i'm laughing because my note to myself to link up exercise motivation was in the post.

I have chatted on it once, but then it's just like text messaging. I usually just say no when people ask if I have it because I deleted it after using it once or twice.
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12-27-2017, 06:59 PM
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(12-27-2017 06:57 PM)Benjamin Wrote:  Hahaha i'm laughing because my note to myself to link up exercise motivation was in the post.

I have chatted on it once, but then it's just like text messaging. I usually just say no when people ask if I have it because I deleted it after using it once or twice.

ahahah.. you should get it again if the chicks u meet use it. Its good because if things dont work out with a chick its easier to re initiate things in the future with them.

They can see your story so you can get them curious about you without messaging them directly.
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12-27-2017, 07:04 PM
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I'm sure Raykon sends plenty of eggplant and peach emojis Wink

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12-28-2017, 03:48 AM (This post was last modified: 12-28-2017 03:48 AM by Raykon.)
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(12-26-2017 04:24 PM)Amann Wrote:  Raykon that's exactly what I wanted to hear! ..Sounds like you're doing great with it...even if it has only been a few days... .I guess I'm gonna have to buy SE now!

I created a thread discussing SE and AM6 :http://subliminal-talk.com/Thread-Men-s-Product-Discussion-Self-Esteem-AM6-EPRHA-

As you've done AM6 before do you think you could compare it to how you felt when you did AM6? Not necessarily now...but in say a week ..to give the program a bit more time to run.

Now I'm even more intrigued to see how this subs works!

P.S...Metrotown...skytrain....guess who found the knucklehead! Lol

do you live in same area as me?
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12-29-2017, 09:07 PM (This post was last modified: 12-29-2017 09:08 PM by Raykon.)
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That chick I picked up the other day and have a date with tomorrow at 6. She sent me selfie videos of herself (2 of em) last night at 3 am being all seductive and sexy and asked me to snapchat her back.

I ignored her because I wasnt in the mood to talk and I was tired. Also to make her wonder why i didnt respond and why im not needy.

I'm guessing she was a little drunk and was thinking about me and couldn't resist snapping me.
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12-30-2017, 03:46 AM
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(12-28-2017 03:48 AM)Raykon Wrote:  
(12-26-2017 04:24 PM)Amann Wrote:  Raykon that's exactly what I wanted to hear! ..Sounds like you're doing great with it...even if it has only been a few days... .I guess I'm gonna have to buy SE now!

I created a thread discussing SE and AM6 :http://subliminal-talk.com/Thread-Men-s-Product-Discussion-Self-Esteem-AM6-EPRHA-

As you've done AM6 before do you think you could compare it to how you felt when you did AM6? Not necessarily now...but in say a week ..to give the program a bit more time to run.

Now I'm even more intrigued to see how this subs works!

P.S...Metrotown...skytrain....guess who found the knucklehead! Lol

do you live in same area as me?

Hahaha...no but I have cousins who live out there. Some in whiterock, some in surrey (of course!)..I know BC well
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12-30-2017, 08:50 PM (This post was last modified: 12-30-2017 09:03 PM by Raykon.)
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I woke up, cleaned my house for 4 hours, scrubbed the walls in my room and bathroom. (to prepare for my date at 6), I went to gym after cleaning for hour then I went to pool/hot tub for 2 hours. I was in the perfect condition and state for the date and 2 hours before the date I sent her a text asking for address. She opened the text up hour later and then hasnt responded yet.

I messaged her saying "Do you want to chill still or should I make other plans?" No response.

So I messaged this other chick that I've been talking to randomly on snapchat that I picked up at the mall month or so ago.

I said "My date for tonight is flaking I think, would you like to go to dinner tonight at 6?"

long story short, she said its tempting and she was thining abotu it for a while, but she ended up telling me that she has bad anxiety today and is in't in the mood to go out she just wanted to stay in.

I know she was being genuine. So I said thats not a problem at all, i hope to see you in the future when your feeling better" She said "for sure!"

The crazy thing is I was talking to her about the other chick like it didn't matter at all if she knows im dating other people too. It was amazing because I never do that. Her reaction was great, she even called the other girl rude for ignoring me.
I noticed big changes happening with self esteem.

Major changes, im at an all time high now, even stronger mentally then I was on AM, or on DMSI. or any other program.


Self esteeem is what I was lacking.

Interacting with random people today I feel like a different person. I am even more comfortable and relaxed and myself in social situations then in the past.

Even going to the gym was easier today, perhaps because I had a date but I felt great.

I don't know if this will work or not but I just messaged the chick that flaked and said

I still want to meet you but since you flaked on me
il only go out with you if you pay
i was looking forward to seeing you all day.

Honestly have no idea if that will work or not but my mind told me to say it so il see if it works or not. perhaps thats what a high self esteem is. or perhaps il fail. either way idgaf. she flaked and she has to make it up to me.

I can't wait to be on this program for extended period of time. I've only been on it for a week or so.
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12-31-2017, 07:43 AM
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Telling the second chick that your date flaked as a prelude is, in female-speak, telling her, "You aren't my first choice to hang out with, but since I can't hang with who I really want to hang with, you'll do."

Very bad approach. Telling a woman you're dating others is one thing. Telling her she's an acceptable substitute for who you really wanted to spend time with is bad juju.

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12-31-2017, 11:34 AM (This post was last modified: 12-31-2017 11:40 AM by Raykon.)
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(12-31-2017 07:43 AM)Shannon Wrote:  Telling the second chick that your date flaked as a prelude is, in female-speak, telling her, "You aren't my first choice to hang out with, but since I can't hang with who I really want to hang with, you'll do."

Very bad approach. Telling a woman you're dating others is one thing. Telling her she's an acceptable substitute for who you really wanted to spend time with is bad juju.

You may be right but in this situation it worked. I wasn't rude about it i was just being honest. Honesty is good isn't it? I didn't go into details until she asked me about it. I just mentioned ""I think my date is flaking

Oh and I say it worked, because I ended up talking to her through text throughout the day and building more of a connection and she seems eager to go out with me in the future.
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I'll definitely take your advice into consideration and reconsider my approach next time.
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12-31-2017, 11:36 AM
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(12-31-2017 11:34 AM)Raykon Wrote:  
(12-31-2017 07:43 AM)Shannon Wrote:  Telling the second chick that your date flaked as a prelude is, in female-speak, telling her, "You aren't my first choice to hang out with, but since I can't hang with who I really want to hang with, you'll do."

Very bad approach. Telling a woman you're dating others is one thing. Telling her she's an acceptable substitute for who you really wanted to spend time with is bad juju.

You may be right but in this situation it worked. I wasn't rude about it i was just being honest. Honesty is good isn't it?

Lol, this is what I'm hung up on these days.

I could rant for days on this, but I won't.

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12-31-2017, 11:39 AM
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(12-31-2017 11:36 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote:  
(12-31-2017 11:34 AM)Raykon Wrote:  
(12-31-2017 07:43 AM)Shannon Wrote:  Telling the second chick that your date flaked as a prelude is, in female-speak, telling her, "You aren't my first choice to hang out with, but since I can't hang with who I really want to hang with, you'll do."

Very bad approach. Telling a woman you're dating others is one thing. Telling her she's an acceptable substitute for who you really wanted to spend time with is bad juju.

You may be right but in this situation it worked. I wasn't rude about it i was just being honest. Honesty is good isn't it?

Lol, this is what I'm hung up on these days.

I could rant for days on this, but I won't.

Message me I'm interested in hearing what you have to say.
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12-31-2017, 12:23 PM
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Day 10
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01-01-2018, 11:25 AM
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Raykon did you take a break between DMSI 3.1 and SE 5.5G?
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01-01-2018, 05:36 PM
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(12-31-2017 11:36 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote:  
(12-31-2017 11:34 AM)Raykon Wrote:  
(12-31-2017 07:43 AM)Shannon Wrote:  Telling the second chick that your date flaked as a prelude is, in female-speak, telling her, "You aren't my first choice to hang out with, but since I can't hang with who I really want to hang with, you'll do."

Very bad approach. Telling a woman you're dating others is one thing. Telling her she's an acceptable substitute for who you really wanted to spend time with is bad juju.

You may be right but in this situation it worked. I wasn't rude about it i was just being honest. Honesty is good isn't it?

Lol, this is what I'm hung up on these days.

I could rant for days on this, but I won't.

You guys, seriously? If you don't understand what I just said, it's no wonder you're having trouble with women. Honesty is great, but you have to know when you're speaking male-speak and when you need to speak female-speak. It's not about what you say, it's about what they understand you to have said. If in male-speak you are "being honest" and in female speak you are telling her she's a second rate option, then you may have had the best intentions, but you also shot yourself in the foot because of what she understood, regardless of what you said or meant.

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01-01-2018, 05:44 PM
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(01-01-2018 11:25 AM)dissonance Wrote:  Raykon did you take a break between DMSI 3.1 and SE 5.5G?

I was on am refresher for a month then anxiety relief for 2 weeks and a bit and then AM refresher for 6 days then SE for 11 days (today).. no break in between.
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01-01-2018, 05:46 PM (This post was last modified: 01-01-2018 05:46 PM by Raykon.)
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I usually have a strong fear of calling women because phone game was my biggest flaw and fear.

Today I just tried to call one of the chicks to apologize to her and ask her out. Apologize because the text that I sent about her paying for dinner backfired because it did turn out to be an emergency apparently. So I apologized and im in recovery mode now but doesn't look good.


but yeah I tried calling her, which is unbecoming of me because I usually fear phone convos. This is good news. SE is working.
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01-01-2018, 05:47 PM
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(01-01-2018 05:36 PM)Shannon Wrote:  
(12-31-2017 11:36 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote:  
(12-31-2017 11:34 AM)Raykon Wrote:  
(12-31-2017 07:43 AM)Shannon Wrote:  Telling the second chick that your date flaked as a prelude is, in female-speak, telling her, "You aren't my first choice to hang out with, but since I can't hang with who I really want to hang with, you'll do."

Very bad approach. Telling a woman you're dating others is one thing. Telling her she's an acceptable substitute for who you really wanted to spend time with is bad juju.

You may be right but in this situation it worked. I wasn't rude about it i was just being honest. Honesty is good isn't it?

Lol, this is what I'm hung up on these days.

I could rant for days on this, but I won't.

You guys, seriously? If you don't understand what I just said, it's no wonder you're having trouble with women. Honesty is great, but you have to know when you're speaking male-speak and when you need to speak female-speak. It's not about what you say, it's about what they understand you to have said. If in male-speak you are "being honest" and in female speak you are telling her she's a second rate option, then you may have had the best intentions, but you also shot yourself in the foot because of what she understood, regardless of what you said or meant.

Ah *light bulb moment* Thanks Shannon.

Note to self: learn female-speak.

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