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DMSI 3.1 - Way to lose my dry spell??
01-07-2018, 10:35 PM
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RE: DMSI 3.1 - Way to lose my dry spell??
(01-07-2018 04:51 PM)Razib1988 Wrote:  I'm breaking down right now. Just came back from grocery shopping. Did two approaches and they shot me dead right on the spot. My voice was timid, eyes were darting, confidence was buried. I'm going nowhere with my women problem. It got worse. I haven't noticed any IOIs, not even from the fat girl that checked out right next to me. Life is terrible at this point. I wanna cry and yell it on the rooftop. Why is it so hard for the average guys out there?

Dude I feel you, let me offer an alternative mentality.

Perhaps the girls didn't shoot you down because you're an average guy, perhaps they shot you down because: "My voice was timid, eyes were darting, confidence was buried"

I'd bet if you had the opposite of that, the girls would have responded well to you.

It's the craziest thing but you get a good understanding of it in sales, which is that if you aren't in a good state, it doesn't matter what you do or say, people don't respond well. But if you are, people DO respond well. (You still need skills tho)

The point is, it's not because of YOU that they reacted the way they did, it's just because of how you came across.

"We are incapable of designing and building a mosquito, let alone all the species and most of the other things in the universe. So I start from the premise that nature is smarter than I am and try to let nature teach me how reality works." - Ray Dalio
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01-08-2018, 07:57 PM
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RE: DMSI 3.1 - Way to lose my dry spell??
(01-07-2018 10:35 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote:  
(01-07-2018 04:51 PM)Razib1988 Wrote:  I'm breaking down right now. Just came back from grocery shopping. Did two approaches and they shot me dead right on the spot. My voice was timid, eyes were darting, confidence was buried. I'm going nowhere with my women problem. It got worse. I haven't noticed any IOIs, not even from the fat girl that checked out right next to me. Life is terrible at this point. I wanna cry and yell it on the rooftop. Why is it so hard for the average guys out there?

Dude I feel you, let me offer an alternative mentality.

Perhaps the girls didn't shoot you down because you're an average guy, perhaps they shot you down because: "My voice was timid, eyes were darting, confidence was buried"

I'd bet if you had the opposite of that, the girls would have responded well to you.

It's the craziest thing but you get a good understanding of it in sales, which is that if you aren't in a good state, it doesn't matter what you do or say, people don't respond well. But if you are, people DO respond well. (You still need skills tho)

The point is, it's not because of YOU that they reacted the way they did, it's just because of how you came across.

I know right, bro! I can recall some pick up artist saying once, "She is just a mirror of yourself. The way you act, rubs off on her." I've approached thousands of women, and the best outcomes I've gotten from the girls that I approached with high confidence, high self esteem, IDGAF mindset, she-is-just-a-girl-who-takes-poop-like-I-do mentality. Remember that I had not been around girls for months. I wasn't feeling it at all. I let a few girls go past me without doing anything. It's a killing anxiety that I feel in my stomach that prevents me from taking positive actions with girls. Today was a different day. Conversation with our super cute boxing instructor went fluidly. I should have been a little edgy though by saying, "You look a lot nicer in the picture, but who knew you could kick butt!" I felt a lot more confident today that reflected on my body language. The girl at work that sits in the next room (within 200 feet) got caught a couple times when checking me out. She is engaged and her world is super small since she seems like an introvert. When we face each other while walking past, she crosses her arms and looks down when I say hi. I don't know if she isa little intimidated by my appearance (I've been called handsome at work by quite a few guys and my attire makes some guys talk behind me as I show my chest hair, wear slim fit shirts and pants, matching shoes). I've been social with guys that sit around her but never initiated a friendly conversation with her since she has been doing that to me. Another new cute intern took a temporary seat behind me today. I introduced myself without any hesitation. Problem is, on 3.1, these positive effects are not long lasting. I hope Shannon does something about it.

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01-12-2018, 10:10 AM (This post was last modified: 01-12-2018 12:21 PM by Razib1988.)
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RE: DMSI 3.1 - Way to lose my dry spell??
I was immersed in PMO for 5 years of my life. I was able to give it up a couple years ago. It was hard to rewire my brain but the impact PMO left on me can still be felt at times. Yesterday I found that my penis was releasing my juice while peeing. It continued throughout the session of my workout last night. I haven't had an orgasm through wet dream in about two weeks. The last time I masturbated was in late November. My testicles were in merciless pain. I decided to empty my balls but I haven't had an erection in a while. Also, years of PMO almost eliminated my ability to masturbate by my mind. So I decided to watch some raunchy videos (not entirely porn) and pictures to get off. After watching a few of those and running my left hand up and down my shaft, my mind suddenly shifted and I opened yourbrainonporn.com on another tab. What I have figured out is I still haven't recovered fully yet. My brain still relapses now and then in every few months. What I'm experiencing now, could be a flatline where the libido seems like nonexistent and the penis looks smaller in size. It suggested that one relinquish all kind of artificial and virtual stimulation to get his sexual urges back. That time, I vowed never to surrender to porn or any kind of virtual pleasure.

On another note, the new intern girl at work (E) has her temporary seat like 3 feet behind mine. She is cute and only 21. We have a lot in common. She said she is going through a severe pain in her stomach. After talking for a while, she revealed it is her period time. And I said, "I get it. I don't wanna talk about it then. I hope you feel better."

Mr Dimsee, please snipe.

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