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Updating recommended books list?
02-11-2016, 04:37 PM (This post was last modified: 02-11-2016 04:38 PM by apollolux.)
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Updating recommended books list?
Given the advances in scripting technology and the somewhat changing times, would there soon be an update to the recommended reading lists associated with various subs? I know personally I've read both How to Be an Alpha Male and Double Your Dating while listening to EHPRA, and while those seem to have their uses reading Models and The Unchained Man during early and late ASC, as well as Choose Yourself and Love Yourself Like Your Life Depended On It currently, seem to give updated versions of the advice in the former and can be applied towards being a more balanced alpha male and towards emotional healing and outcome independence.

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02-12-2016, 04:04 AM
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RE: Updating recommended books list?
http://subliminal-talk.com/thread-4807-p...l#pid99612
(02-11-2016 05:51 PM)Shannon Wrote:  You were speaking Male when she was listening for Female. Different languages. It's like speaking French to an Icelander and wondering why they don't understand. Only, men and women usually don;t even know they don't speak the same language. Your job is to learn Female-ese.

Why Don't You Understand? A Gender Relationship Dictionary

Why Men Don't Listen and Women Can't Read Maps: How We're Different and What to Do About It

Why Men Want Sex and Women Need Love: Solving the Mystery of Attraction

Why Men Don't Have a Clue and Women Always Need More Shoes: The Ultimate Guide to the Opposite Sex

Men Are Like Waffles - Women Are Like Spaghetti

Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus: Practical Guide for Improving Communication

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02-12-2016, 11:42 AM
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(02-12-2016 04:04 AM)4Kingdoms Wrote:  http://subliminal-talk.com/thread-4807-p...l#pid99612
(02-11-2016 05:51 PM)Shannon Wrote:  You were speaking Male when she was listening for Female. Different languages. It's like speaking French to an Icelander and wondering why they don't understand. Only, men and women usually don;t even know they don't speak the same language. Your job is to learn Female-ese.

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Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus: Practical Guide for Improving Communication

This is certainly where I first read about "female-ese" vs. "male-ese" but I think a lot of the practical aspects of it (the "writing a letter to get your feelings out" especially) are or at least seem outdated.

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02-12-2016, 12:08 PM (This post was last modified: 02-12-2016 12:11 PM by 4Kingdoms.)
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(02-12-2016 11:42 AM)apollolux Wrote:  
(02-12-2016 04:04 AM)4Kingdoms Wrote:  Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus: Practical Guide for Improving Communication

This is certainly where I first read about "female-ese" vs. "male-ese" but I think a lot of the practical aspects of it (the "writing a letter to get your feelings out" especially) are or at least seem outdated.

I haven't read any of these books, I just quickly searched and put a list together to address how one could go about learning "female-ese".

In time, I do plan on reading up on it. @Anyone reading: If there are newer and up to date ideas about "female-ese" please share when you discover them.

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02-12-2016, 04:37 PM (This post was last modified: 02-12-2016 04:38 PM by Benjamin.)
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I don't think i'd ever read that 'men are from mars' crap.. the author is just some poonce who you wouldn't want advice from.

But definately Alpha 2.0, maybe models but i'm still unsure about that whole philosophy, Carlos Xuma Alpha Male book, can't remember the exact name.
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02-15-2016, 04:01 AM
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I recommend reading 'Obedience to Authority' by Stanley Milgram to understand some underlying concepts of functioning in hierarchies.

One of those books that might influence your own behavior and sheds light onto social dynamics.

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